commented on SL Letter of the Day: Insane Demands
Another thing having those pictures (or just seeing them) allows her to do is compare herself to the wife and emotionally manipulate the man with the information.
"Wow, she's really heavy. Aren't you glad you're with someone who has a much better body than that?"
"You know she loves that vibrator more than you. I would never bring a sex toy to bed as long as I have you around."
"She has such boring undergarments. You deserve better. Look how exciting mine are!"
commented on SL Letter of the Day: You're Doing Everything Right
I'm a woman in the dating world and if I saw a profile of an amputee, I'd read the rest of it to see what common ground we had. If I thought it was a good match otherwise, and I could deal with giving up whatever physical activities his amputation seemed to preclude, then I'd contact him. But if I showed up to a first date with a guy to find out he had a serious amputation and **he hadn't told me**, I might dump him right there and I certainly wouldn't go out with him again. For one thing, I would wonder what other important aspects of his self that he wasn't intending to disclose to me until I stumbled over it - maybe he's an addict, or a convicted child molester, or HIV positive, or married, or whatever - all things he thinks is fine not to tell me until I'm emotionally invested, compromised, and unable to make an impartial, informed decision to protect my best interests.
It's a dick move and utterly selfish. Dump the mother-fucker immediately.
commented on Savage Love
Condoms are great, but as a woman, I'd get an IUD or long-term shot as a backup prevention for the most commonly sexually transmitted complication there is: pregnancy.