i remember awhile ago i was at a show at studio 7...misery signals parkway drive darkest hour and so on, and i went up to john and tried to talk to him...my brother Brandon grew up with him, and I remember him a little...i was pretty young. Brandon has since passed away, but when I tried to talk to him, he said what sounded like "stay out of my life" it was loud in there and im not sure thats what he said, but man what a fucking let down.