Jun 16, 2015
commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: The Opposite of a Sympathy Card
I agree with Action Kate #24. Whenever I'm faced with a moral dilemma like this, I always try to think about what my future-self will think. In 10 years, will you feel like you lowered yourself to her level by sending the letter? Does the letter make you feel even the slightest bit petty? (i'm wondering if it does, because you aren't sure about sending it now) It's all about *you*, and your feelings, not her's. She's basically useless... not worth your time or effort. You won't change her views whatsoever, maybe your letter will "reinforce" her religious fervor even more, who knows? People like her are wackjobs, they don't see the other side of anything.
I'm so sorry for your loss, you need to heal right now, not deal with this woman's bullshit.
Feb 27, 2015
commented on SL Letter of the Day: Hand-Sniffing Girlfriend
start masturbating with different condiments other than your regular lube. tell her she gets points if she can sniff out what you used...watch her head explode.
oh, i see this letter is old, forget it.
Jun 25, 2014
commented on Savage Love
I agree #30.
@ #31 - what if your wife's playmate was secretly an anti-abortion wackjob? He could have made her life miserable. You say he was "dumb" but this was probably better than if he had been harassing/threatening her to keep the fetus.
Have the abortion, tell the other couple about it after.
May 20, 2014
commented on SL Letter of the Day: That Looks Like a Dick
I attended a bachelorette party where the soon-to-be bride was required to drink her libations out of a dick bottle, it had a straw coming out of the hole. It was basically a water bottle, flesh-colored, shaped like big penis, you filled it from the bottom. Probably could find it at a sex shop, I would think...
I guess maybe I'm not clear as to what the LW is wanting. I don't think you would actually be able to fuck someone with this.... but... maybe? It was pretty large.
Jul 9, 2013
commented on SL Letter of the Day: New Road Rules
If someone is going to cheat on you, they are going to do it no matter what location they are in. If you can't trust him to go to Prague, you can't trust him to go to Bowling Green, Kentucky. You guys probably should have broken up before he left. Sorry, but you do sound very insecure (which maybe you have a right to be since your boyfriend is a 'very good liar') I wouldn't go visit him. Let him have his Bro-Trip. You can't stop it or control what goes on. Do some fun stuff on your own while he's gone.
May 9, 2013
commented on SL Letter of the Day: Bonus Advice for Too Soon To Quit
This sort of sounds like my first marriage, aside from the broken foot part. She should definitely stop having sex with him.
Since my ex husband couldn't afford to take over the lease or support himself in any way, I kicked him out and he went back home to live with his dad. I promptly filed for divorce at that time and it was like ripping off a band-aid. He called me years later and thanked me for having the balls to face our problems head-on when he couldn't. Thank God we never had kids.
TSTQ - if he won't help himself, it's hopeless. Sorry.
Feb 20, 2013
commented on SL Letter of the Day: Importing a Unicorn
I think you should go! As long as the penetration rules are clear to everyone involved. Remember, they want *you* - so you have some control here. Underwhelming now, but maybe he will surprise you, who knows? You already know you want to play with her, so here's your chance. Rarely is anything ever truly perfect, but I think if you go into it with the right attitude you're sure to have a great time.
And... if it gets weird, so what? You're 23.