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Aug 26 StockBreak commented on Letters From Ashley Madison Users.
I'm a little flabbergasted that LW2 went to AM in the first place. I hope she didn't pay for her membership. A woman can go pretty much anywhere on the internet and find men willing to have sex with her, I don't get why she sought out AM when there are plenty of venues that would work just as well. Craigslist seems like an obvious choice. While it has a well-deserved reputation for being slimy, I don't believe for a second that it's any worse or better than AM's user base, especially if she filters for creeps and weirdos before meeting (which seems to be the case). She could've easily found men in her exact situation without paying money and handing personal info to AM.
Apr 10 StockBreak commented on Conversations with My Mom About Gay Conversion Therapy.
I'm glad your relationship with your mother improved. I was born the same year as you and I haven't been nearly as lucky. My mother didn't need Focus on the Family to develop a vile hatred of gays, but they certainly helped push her hatred into overdrive. I was her second child out of wedlock (out of four) but that didn't prevent her from finding a place in the local church. And single motherhood didn't prevent her from shoving abstinence down our throats even though it makes no goddamn sense to anyone who looked at what was happening where I grew up.
Mar 20 StockBreak commented on SL Letter of the Day: Occupational Hazard.
Does "welcomed me into their home" mean the LW is living with her boss and his family? Or does it mean they have her over for dinner occasionally? If it's the former, then this goes from a definite no to a hell-to-the-no. The risk that the son will slip up and tell everyone (or make it obvious) is way too high in any case. If you could see yourself dating the son wait a few years, otherwise stay away.
Feb 13 StockBreak commented on SL Letter of the Day: Booze and Barriers.
Money for a therapist shouldn't be an issue if the college campus has a decent counseling center. The counseling center at my college helped me a great deal when I was coming out. People didn't care for the doctors at the 'normal' health center, but the mental health professionals were generally praised.
Feb 11 StockBreak commented on SL Letter of the Day: Be PrEPared.
I'm glad I'm not the only person who picked up on the manipulation of saying "I can't handle someone as big as you with a condom on". Insisting on not using condoms is an automatic dealbreaker for hookups, doubly so when they try to sneakily manipulate me into taking it off.

If the LW doesn't want to risk herpes, gonorrhea, HPV, or chlamydia, he should walk away from this guy and fast.
Feb 4 StockBreak commented on SL Letter of the Day: My Boss Is a Married Lady and I'm Not a Single Lady—Should I Fuck Her Anyway?.
"The language is there between us, and that’s not easy to find—and certainly not at my age in the lesbian community."

Shit, she's only 36, I've heard turning 30 is the end of a gay man's love life (although as 34 year old gay man, it's largely a silly myth), is it really that bad for lesbians? Maybe if she found a job that required less hours she'd be able to find someone single that she feels in sync with.
Jan 23 StockBreak commented on SL Letter of the Day: Cheater and Cheated.
I hate to shit on this woman when she's already at a pretty low point but I did notice this:

"During the first year of our relationship—after we discussed wanting to be exclusive—he was fucking the ex that he left for me."

So was he fucking the LW at the same time he was seeing the ex? Or did he wait until things were over with the ex before he and the LW hooked up? I suspect it's the former. Whether the LW knew or not is a different matter, I hope she didn't.
Dec 29, 2014 StockBreak commented on SL Letters of the Day: Suggested Language.
I don't see why a non-religious person should try to explain to devout Mormon why their lifestyle is "not sinful". You're arguing with a brick wall. A better tact would be to explain how your relationship is healthy and stable. The effort is still mostly futile, but at least it's on your terms.
Dec 18, 2014 StockBreak commented on "Thanks for Proving Rick Santorum Right".
I have no idea what the LW is talking about, but marriages of convenience have been around as long as there have been people. The fact that a same sex couple might have one says nothing about us as a group other than we're just like straight couples.
Mar 18, 2014 StockBreak commented on SL Letter of the Day: A Short Answer to a Hard Problem.
My bf bought a cock sheath and we discovered that it was both too small on the inside to fit my cock in there and too big on the outside for his ass. Seriously that thing was nearing the girth of a Pringles can.