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9:44 PM yesterday msanonymous commented on Alison Stevenson Won't Suck Your Dick.
@58 No, she's allowed to ask for what she wants, she's allowed to dump guys who say they want oral in return, but at no point is the world obligated to give her a nice guy who loves eating pussy but hates having his dick sucked.

She can look for this guy, she may even find him, but that's not a promise or a guarantee that he'll show up, or that if he does that he'll even be a guy she wants to date.

#30 had it right. She's allowed to be a shitty lover just like the not-shitty men of the world are allowed to dump her ass/avoid her like the plague.
Mar 24 msanonymous commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Irreconcilable Differences.
@30

I think you should read this: http://www.cracked.com/article_22192_5-h…

The first paragraph talks about how there was a study that talks about how kids who's parents divorce get anxious and do badly in school, what people don't mention that that situation is temporary, and that things will most likely improve once they've had time to to cope. While kids growing up in a war zone may suffer from that for years.
Mar 24 msanonymous commented on Alison Stevenson Won't Suck Your Dick.
@11 I agree. Who is the woman and why do I care about her sex life? If the 'she gets oral he gets a pat on the back' works for her friend I don't see what the problem is. Hell I've been reading SL for long to recall that there were letters from guys who didn't like oral so there are compatible people out there, she'll just have to look harder which is true for anyone with standards.
Mar 23 msanonymous commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Irreconcilable Differences.
@1 I can. DTMFA. You two just don't work LW. Your marriage is a mess, your lives are a mess and I get the feeling the kids are a mess too. Get out, get therapy, focus on the kids and try to pick up the pieces from this debacle.
Mar 20 msanonymous commented on SL Letter of the Day: Sobbing Isn't Sexy.
@43 I'm amazed so many people are jumping through hoops to make this the LW's fault. That her boyfriend flat out said that her being in emotional pain is what he wants doesn't count as much as portraying the LW as a crazy, controlling, bitch does.
Mar 18 msanonymous commented on SL Letter of the Day: Sobbing Isn't Sexy.
I really hope the LW left, this is way more than just mismatched libidos, this guy gets off on her emotional pain and I get the feeling he'll keep upping the ante.
Mar 17 msanonymous commented on Savage Love.
@4 There are so many letters where someone describes their spouse or partner as 'wonderful' only the person described in the letter comes across as anything but.

SPANK you may want to ask yourself if your relationship really is as great as it seems. I can't help but think that someone who's abandoned you in the bedroom may have abandoned you in other ways too.
Mar 11 msanonymous commented on Savage Love.
@27 I'm assuming you and your partner talked about your relationship before agreeing to a companionate marriage. The the decision was mutual. And that's the thing. It has to be mutual. You can't just tell your partner that you're never going to have sex with them again but they also aren't allowed to leave you.

The problem is that BLUEBALLS doesn't want a companionate marriage and it doesn't sound like his wife is bringing a lot of companionship to their relationship. I mean if he said that everything else about his marriage was great except for sex that would be one thing, but I get the feeling the sex is just the tip of the iceberg here. And I don't think it's simply a case of her just not being into him.
Mar 10 msanonymous commented on Savage Love.
I have to agree with #1 and #5. My main issue with Dan's advice is his belief that any marriage with children must be preserved at all costs. No matter how unhealthy or damaging the relationship is. Getting some on the side might meet the LW's sexual needs, but what about all the other need that are going unmet? What about the emotional needs of his kids that may be going unmet?

Sticking it out may do more harm to the wife too since as long as the LW is willing to put up with her bullshit she has no real motivation to change.
Mar 6 msanonymous commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Money Woes and Massive Dildos.
@11 & 13. I believe sounds are thin, curved, metal rods inserted into the the urethrae. They can be used for both medical procedures and sexual pleasure.
 

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