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Apr 4 msanonymous commented on Letter to the Editor: The Real Story Behind the MAGA Hat-Wearing Star of a Police Reports Illustrated.
Yeah this just sounds like 'devils advocate' bullshit. Or 'I want to piss people off but I don't want to have to take responsibility for it'.

No sympathy here.
Mar 27 msanonymous commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Uninvited Touching from Strangers and Ghosts.
@7 I agree. I really dislike this belief that acknowledging that the world is unfair and unsafe and we all need to watch our backs is 'victim blaming'. That giving people the ability to protect themselves is somehow empowering rapists.

That's like saying telling people to wear seatbelts is encouraging car crashes.

Look it sucks that as a women I need to be so, so careful. But this is world we live in. Pining for a paradise and holding back on teaching people how to protect themselves helps no one.
Mar 25 msanonymous commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: She Needs Help! NOW!.
LW there's no reward for sticking out an awful relationship. You don't get a ceremony, a trophy, a million dollars, and a harem of attractive people if you hang in there for ten years.

All you get is wasting five more years with this man.

And I'll ask would you want your kids is a relationship like this? Would you want them with a partner who treated you the way this guy treats you? If the answer is 'no' then you know what you have to do.
Mar 21 msanonymous commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: A Tale of Two Colleagues (She's Humping).
@10 that stuck out to me too. I can't help but think B is a manipulative drama queen and it would be better for the LW to stay broken up with her.
Mar 21 msanonymous commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: You Heard It Here First, Cousin.
LW I gotta agree with avast. I can understand why the cousin thing is a boner killer but that's not the real problem. The problem is that this woman is flaky and selfish, who leaves you sexually derprived for months at a time, and magically find her libido again after you made it clear you weren't going to put up with her shit. And she seems to rely on you for all her social interaction.

Now you find out she's messing around with her cousin.

Look breaking up was a good idea. Stick with that. You're too old for this crap and she's also to old for this crap.
Feb 28 msanonymous commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: The Longest SLLOTD Ever Posted.
Yeah by paragraph two I was going 'you're too involved with your ex, you're too involved with your ex YOU'RE TOO INVOLVED WITH YOU EX.

LW you're a woman in your fifties, act like it. Stop carrying on like a teenager who thinks the boyfriend who treats her like shit really loves her and she just needs to give a second [or thirty-fifth] chance and he'll be the man of her dreams.

Your ex treated you like garbage throughout your marriage. He doesn't like you, he doesn't want you back, what he wants if you to keep being his dancing doll and holding on to the hope that he morph into a better person.

Let. It. Go. Move on. Take Dan's advice and build a life for yourself outside you ex. Remind yourself this is a man who spend ten years accusing you of cheating and then spent the rest of your relationship harping on you one-time infidelity when the relationship was over.

He is not a good person and I'm worried that's he's got you so fucked up that you believe that he is.
Feb 20 msanonymous commented on Milo Yiannopoulos: Girls Are In Danger When Adult Trans Women Use Public Toilets But 13-Year-Old Boys Can Benefit From Giving Head To Adult Males.
I've said it before and I'll say it again. If a man wants to start shit in a Ladies Room he can. Ladies Room are not the fucking save rooms from Resident Evil. Monsters aren't kept out and people with bad intentions aren't magically teleported to Marianas Trench when they step foot in one.

If a guy wants to perv in a women's restroom he can do that, without spending years in therapy or thousand on horomones and surgery.
Feb 15 msanonymous commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Why Is My Gay Son Hooking Up With a Girl?.
I think eleven is a bit to young to making any hard life choices. That he's bi or experimenting is a good enough explanation. I think #2 had a good point that sexuality is more flexible then we give it credit for and cementing into an identity just to fit in can back fire.

But the important thing is that the LW's knows about birth control and how to use it. And yes he will need this if he gets a boyfriend somewhere along the line.

And #1 I'm pretty sure there are many people who walked back from homosexuality. You do realize the Gay Mafia isn't a real thing right? They don't leave carousel horse heads in the beds of guys who realize they like girls too.
Feb 11 msanonymous commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Straight Guy Can't Win.
[During sex, if the man doesn't come, it's the man's fault, because he clearly has problems with his dick and is barely even a man and should be ashamed of himself. If the woman doesn't come, it's also the man's fault, because he's clearly bad at sex and doesn't even care and is barely even a man and should be ashamed of himself.]

I've never heard that. What I have heard is that if a man can't come during it's the woman's fault for not being hot enough, not being kinky enough, not being permissive enough.

If a woman can't come during sex it's her fault for being frigid, for being demanding, for thinking her orgasm matters in any way.

I doubt any of this has ever happened to the LW. He just wants a reason to treat women like shit.