Aug 13, 2012
commented on SL Letter of the Day: Even Less Kinky Than Plain Vanilla
I am shaking my head in confusion at this letter. I consider myself to being fairly open (albiet slightly shy) about sex & slightly kinky. But I wouldn't be comfortable going into a sex shop either & don't use toys. (WTF is a vanilla sex toy, anyway? Sounds like a total contradiction in terms!).
You lady, are quite kinky & he is not. Ask yourself if this is a deal-breaker for you, or not. If he's the same age as you, the chances that he will change into someone much kinkier, is fairly unlikely, in my opinion. So you have to decide whether your love for him, is more important than more kinky sex.
Jan 20, 2012
commented on SL Letter of the Day: Frustrated Sex Columnist
VFG, I used to be you! Don't marry him! I was in a relationship with a man with a very low sex drive for almost 4 years. It was miserable!! He was a good man in other ways (& in fact, we are still friends), but I was so unhappy, I seriously had thoughts of suicide. How nuts is that?!? I left him & started looking & within just over a year, I met my 5th husband! We just got married a few weeks ago, the sex is AWESOME, & (almost) every day! Unless sex is not important to you, which clearly it is since you are unhappy & fighting over this issue; this situation is hopeless. Get out now!!!