Dec 27, 2016 TheRob commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Scenes From a Marriage.
"Are you being fulfilled sexually? I'm not, and it's not fair. Let's discuss some solutions to that, but let me be clear: me continuing to give you blowjobs with nothing in return is not a solution and will not continue. Want some ideas from me to get the ball rolling, or did you want to start?"
Sep 20, 2016 TheRob commented on Savage Love.
@SNIP It is entirely your guy's perogative if he wants to get his junk cut on, and if you are pressuring him, you're being an asshole. I understand if you don't want kids, but in the very unlikely case of condom malfunction followed by the even more unlikely case it results in a pregnancy, and the even more unlikely case all that happens AND she doesn't want to abort or place for adoption, he still has to decide if he wants to take an active role in the kid's life. And just because he takes an active role in it doesn't mean you have to. And if, after ALL OF THOSE unlikely scenarios happen, and he DOES expect you to take an active role in his kid's life, THEN you will have the same opportunity to leave with the now understandable reason that you never wanted kids and made it clear from the onset that you didn't.

But until you reach that point, calm your ass down and stop being a controlling bitch. Stop micromanaging someone else's life.
Jul 26, 2016 TheRob commented on I, Anonymous.
Been pepper sprayed, can confirm, your wife would be a blubbering mess. Can't open your eyes, everything that generates mucus goes into overdrive, and you are desperately trying to catch your breath while avoiding breathing in any of it. Oh, and the pain. You go into full-on panic mode, unless you're one of the random people it doesn't really affect.

Btw, not a rapist or stalker, I had to carry it for work and somebody had the bright idea that if you have to carry it, you should have to get hit with it first.
Jul 12, 2016 TheRob commented on Savage Love.
"I committed myself to this person" does not extend to "I committed myself to this person regardless of how poorly they treat me" and does not diminish that commitment when the other party completely betrays the trust inherent in the relationship. Dropping someone because of cheating (especially egregious ongoing cheating) is absolutely not "committing to the ideal" and not a commitment to the person. It is possible to move past it, but doing so (or not) has no reflection on the wronged party's commitment. That's bullshit, Dan.
Feb 3, 2016 TheRob commented on I, Anonymous.
Sounds like he was heating up his back burner because the crazy person he was with (but was having too good of sex to end it with) was on their way out. Not very nice, definitely, but having been in the position of the one putting up with that nonsense (crying on a beach daily on a family camping trip? Sounds like Christmas with my ex!), I can understand his position.
Feb 2, 2016 TheRob commented on Seattle Times' Treatment of Musician Hollis Wong-Wear Is a Perfect Example of #JournalismSoWhite.
So if it were a white person who collaborated on an album with the much more famous Macklemore, it would have been okay to use the word sidekick as within the context, that is an appropriate comparison, but if the person is Asian, it is racist, even in the exact same context? That sounds pretty knee-jerk.
Jan 6, 2016 TheRob commented on I, Anonymous.
@DavidinShoreline Do you ever pull a muscle patting yourself on the back so much? Or do you get plenty of strength training climbing on your high horse?

May as well tell miners that they shouldn't work underground if they don't want to die in a cave-in, not that their conditions should be improved. Or tell soldiers they shouldn't join the military if they don't want to die when they are given non-bullet-resistant humvees and inadequate equipment.
Sep 9, 2015 TheRob commented on I, Anonymous.
I was really looking forward to Mr. Zifferelli's criticism on this, as this I,anon actually deserves it. Maybe I'm too early?
Aug 12, 2015 TheRob commented on What Bernie Sanders Said (and Didn't Say) After the Black Lives Matter Interruption.
Either these women are JUST attention mongers, or they are short-sighted idealistic attention mongers. Alienating the people who are your biggest allies only helps your enemies. You'll burn it to the ground? No, you won't. You'll make an ass of yourself and hurt the only candidate who is decent enough to let you speak.
Jul 20, 2015 TheRob commented on Last Days: The Week in Review.
I'm pretty confused as to how those comments, under oath, were not enough to get him convicted in the court case they were pulled from? What argument was made where the admission to buying the drugs and intending to give them to women so he could rape them doesn't land him in jail for giving a woman a drug and raping her?