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Jan 23 nuit commented on Savage Love.

My husband and I didn't get to fuck at all on our wedding day. Way too much stress. In the end it didn't matter. We had plenty of time on the honeymoon and ended up bringing back a souvenir of all that fucking. Our first child is due exactly 9 months after our wedding.

Everything you said was perfect.

Jan 2 nuit commented on Savage Love.

I am in an open relationship with my husband. When he and I were dating my rule was do what you are going to do but don't tell me about.

That did not work. My brain came up with tons of crazy ideas about what he was doing when we were not together. I nearly drove myself crazy.

Now that we are married I instead have a policy where he tells me he is seeing someone but no details until I ask. He is very transparent about what he is doing but only if I ask. That way I control how much info I get but I also can stop my imagination from coming up with crazy ideas.

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Mar 19, 2012 nuit commented on SL Letter of the Day: The Squeaky Wheel.

The house keeping and nature thing are actually not that trivial. I hate living in clutter and I love hiking. My fiance has had to make adjustments to his idea of clean. He will go camping with me but not kayaking so I have had to find a group of people who will go with me and he has to be ok with me taking weekends without him.

If the letter writer isn't willing to make these compromises I can see his girlfriend ending the relationship. Their careers will take compromise and so will child raising and other things. If he isn't willing to work with her she might feel dumping him is in her best interest and I can't say I disagree.