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Nov 22, 2015 scrappy_girlie commented on What Can You Do With Steve King's Gun?.
"The honorable douche-nozzle", eh? Maybe we should make enema nozzle tips out of the gun, as well...
Aug 26, 2015 scrappy_girlie commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Forgiveness and Ashley Madison's Innocent Victims.
They are wrong to ask you for your silence, you have nothing to be ashamed of, and a lot to process. This was not something that happened between *two* people, it happened among the three of you, and you have every right to tell this story and talk about how it affected you. Consider starting with the mental health providers at your college.
Mar 23, 2015 scrappy_girlie commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Irreconcilable Differences.
There's a great book that helped me out in terms of clarifying what I wanted in my sex life. "Arousal" by Michael Bader. It helped me understand *why* I was wanting what I wanted, and from there I could understand better what my partner wanted and how we could converge. It might not get him to Dom or you to Hotwife, but it might help you find points between. And if you're staying, you've got time to read a book, negotiate and get some sex-positive counselling.
Nov 27, 2013 scrappy_girlie commented on Savage Love.
I'm a fetishist myself, and found Michael Bader's "Arousal- the secret logic of sexual fantasies" a fascinating read. He agrees with Dan, that you'll never lose the fetish, but has some really cool theories about them. If you're a reader, give this a read.
Sep 23, 2013 scrappy_girlie commented on Just Going to Toss This One Up....
I'm a 35ish female medical fetishist, myself. I've come.... Oh 10 or 12 times in my life *without* relying on medical fantasies. I think I fit the definition, but god knows your prof probably has his PhD, *and* a penis. So that makes him right, I'm sure.
Sep 18, 2013 scrappy_girlie commented on SL Letter of the Day: Honorary Centaur Fetishist.
If it hasn't been said already...
Apr 23, 2013 scrappy_girlie commented on Savage Love.
TIA, try Nasty Pig rubber clothing. It's non-latex and machine washable.
Jan 16, 2013 scrappy_girlie commented on SL Letter of the Day: Lifted Program.
consider joining judo together. You'll get stronger, and you'll learn some safe ways to throw him around and sweep him off his feet.
Oct 8, 2012 scrappy_girlie commented on It Gets Better: A Survivor of "Reparative Therapy" Speaks Out.
I'm a pansexual pervert, myself, and I just came out to my CBT Therapist in small town butt-fuck-nowhere. He had no issues, and CBT is the bomb for depression. It's short term and very effective. If you're struggling to un-fuck yourself after shitty "reparative" therapy or "sexual deviant" classes, remember that you don't have to do it alone, and there are gay and BDSM friendly therapists out there. It does get better.

Go in peace.
Jun 12, 2012 scrappy_girlie commented on Savage Love.
Thank God for targetted advertising. I was just on "Joe My God"'s blog (which I only started following thanks to Dan Savage), and at the top was a banner for the government's workplace safety branch. My homophobic, conservative, anti-choice, gun-toting province is advertising on Joe My God. I laughed.