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Mar 15, 2013 butterflyrose83 commented on Don't Say You Weren't Warned.
As this is the school district I attended and one which I live about 20 mins away from now, I can't say I'm surprised at the school board's vote, Franklin County is about as sexually repressed as the Southern Bible Belt and our county is just as red. I am glad that the ACLU is jumping down their throats. My daughter is almost 10 and should she be gay or bi (like her mom), I want her to feel like its ok. We have already told her we will love her no matter what she is or does but to have a GSA group in school to attend, whether she is gay or straight, would mean a lot. We have taught her to be accepting of most people (there are a few, like child molesters, that I will never accept) and to be able to show her support and acceptance of fellow classmates in this backwards, redneck county would be great.
Feb 6, 2013 butterflyrose83 commented on SL Letter of the Day: Get Your Twink On.
Due to health issues I've gained quite a bit of weight since my hubby and I married almost 10 years ago but he still finds me attractive. Just because I'm no longer his physical ideal, our emotional connection makes it easy to overlook that. He's never been my physical ideal, I like tall (over 6 ft) strong fire fighter types but the few of those I dated, we couldn't connect intellectually. My hubby and I have an amazing intellectual and emotional connection that makes me far more attracted to him than my physical ideal. We have an open marriage but neither of us has taken advantage of that in a few years, mostly because we are so happy with each other.
Jan 30, 2013 butterflyrose83 commented on If Your Gay Kid Is Being Bullied At School And He Begs You To Homeschool Him....
Cyber school is also an option in some states. Here in PA, you can have a setup where you "attend" classes through video chats or you can self-pace. It's an option for those that can't afford to leave a job to homeschool a child. By middle school, a parent does not need to be present in the house during "school" hours. Also, PA cyber schools are funded by the same taxes that fund public schools so there is no extra cost to the parents. They even provide all the books, a computer and pay for an Internet connection.
Dec 26, 2012 butterflyrose83 commented on Congrats, Guys! Suck It, Haters!.
My hubby and I got engaged 6 weeks after we met, pregnant 6 weeks after that and married 9 months after our first date. It's been almost 10 years (and we were 18 when we met, 19 when we married) and we are still just as in love as the day he proposed.

Congrats guys and I am thrilled that you will be able to marry and live openly with one of you serving our country! Thank you for your service.
Nov 14, 2012 butterflyrose83 commented on Savage Love.
I rarely get off from cunnilingus and my hubby has a goatee which is fully grown out and still rough. While he enjoys going down on me, I don't really enjoy it too much. However, our third does enjoy it, so he just goes down on her. My hubby and I have been together for 10 years and my original stance was no head from you, no head for you with sexual partners until I met my soon-to-be hubby. Because a majority of the guys I was sleeping with were a bit immature, I really had no practice in giving head since they weren't comfortable going down on any girl. My hubby on the other hand loved too (we were 18 when we met, btw) so my first real experience with cunnilingus was with him. After multiple attempts to bring me to orgasm and failing, I took back my giving head policy and now blow my hubby but do not request cunnilingus in return. I am probably in the minority of women that actually do not enjoy it, but I really don't.
Oct 23, 2012 butterflyrose83 commented on SL Letter of the Day: Buttpons.
@1 Dan has an extremely full plate and the only thing he is reusing is SLLOTD; every other thing he does are still being done regularly. I don't really care that he's recycling SLLOTD since I'm a fairly new reader and haven't read most of the letters he posting. You try doing everything Dan does in a day and then see if you could add something else to your plate. Just SLLOTD probably adds an hour or two to Dan's daily to do list. Unless you are in a similar situation as Dan (and I highly doubt you are) shut the hell up.
Oct 11, 2012 butterflyrose83 commented on SL Letter of the Day: Girl Seeking Girl.
Best bet may be to try a swinger site. My hubby and I swing as well as just have another female join us. We have met some great couples and a few really nice women as well. There is one woman whom we have known for almost 9 years now and we are friends outside of the bedroom as well as enjoying each other in the bedroom. Also, do to some health issues, I am unable to satisfy my hubby on a regular basis and our three-some partner is more than willing to fill in for me from time to time and I don't worry that she's trying to steal my man, lol.
Oct 11, 2012 butterflyrose83 commented on Savage Love.
There is another way to test the bf from question #1. Just tell him your period is late and you MIGHT be pregnant. It is not uncommon for women to have an unusual cycle from time to time.

So tell him your late, see how he reacts and then in a few days tell him you got your period and everything's ok. It's a better way to judge his reaction than flat out lying about being pregnant.
Sep 13, 2012 butterflyrose83 commented on Savage Love.
My daughter is 9 now but when she gets older I will purchase an age appropriate book about sex for her. I wish someone would have done that for me when I was a teen. I have a very open relationship with my daughter and I teach her the correct anatomical terms for reproductive organs. She calls a penis a penis not a wee-wee and a vagina is a vagina not a hoo-hoo. If she asks about something she gets a straight forward, honest answer. She asked how babies are created and born and she was told how an egg is released, sperm meets egg and egg adheres to the uterine wall. She then asked how does the sperm get from the guy to the egg and was told honetly how PIV sex is accomplished. I honestly wish someone would have taught me the same things but my dad just pretended I was still 2 and sex didn't exist and my mother is an opiate addict and couldn't stay awake long enough to talk about anything. My step parents weren't any better. People need to not be so timid and embarrassed about sex and talk openly with there children (or nieces/nephews if the parents are incapable). Teen pregnancy rates would drop drastically if people put their insecurities aside and talk OPENLY AND HONESTLY with children/teenagers. Yes, it will be uncomfortable and maybe even a bit embarrassing but it has to be done!
May 21, 2012 butterflyrose83 commented on SL Letter of the Day: Show This Woman Some Love.
I rarely post comments on anything (including FB which drives my friends nuts) but I absolutly had to say something to this woman.

You go! Forget about your bible thumping ignorant family and you live life the way you want! It takes an amazing person to take in someone else's child (even if they are family) and as many others have said you probably have literally saved his life because the suicide rate is so much higher within the LGBT youth community, especially those without family support.

I live in southern PA and I've seen first hand how ignorant redneck teenagers can be.

My husband and I are both nursing students and both want to become CRNP's. My husband wants to specialize in psychology and social work and specifically wants to work with troubled youth because we were both bullied in school and neither of us had anyone to talk too.

Now you can see why I don't post, I tend to ramble but I just really wanted to say, YOU GO!