commented on SL Letter of the Day: Mate Or Mat?
This not uncommon, I was in a marriage were verbal abuse was common. The verbal abuse did not start until we were married bought a house and had a kid. It is very hard to leave a relationship when you are going to loose everything. Your relationship,house,and kid all at the same time Everything you worked for and planned has gone down the tubes. If you don't get out right away the damage to your Psyche can be permanent. It me two years to get over this bullshit. Two years to stop looking at woman and thinking what kind of crazy bitch is she? During that time I went to a men's support group (my story was quite tame compared to the horror stories I heard there). a female therapist who described my ex a possible borderline personality disorder.
Dec 7, 2012
commented on SL Letter of the Day: A Bad Trifecta
He is suffering a form of PTSD. After I got out of one of these relationships. I had to go through therapy before I could look at any woman and not think oh my god how much trouble is this person going to cause me.
May 5, 2012
commented on SL Letter of the Day: STFU, BTFO
The best friend is a lying manipulative woman.
The old boyfriend is a lying manipulative idiot (not using condoms).
The husband probably has a clue that his wife is the above, but is in partial denial, PTSD or something, but is trying to make a decision to get out by hanging out with friends etc.
The letter writer needs new friends or self esteem to get a new best friend.
Apr 14, 2012
commented on Savage Love
To WSID get the fuck out now while you still have your sanity. This type of personality does not change.
To STW while I agree you did not have to agree to his request for golden shower. Dumping him over that would not make him in the future be more forthcoming to other partners