Captain Mike
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Jan 23, 2013 Captain Mike commented on Savage Love.
"As same-sex couples, you get to make up the rules. You get to write your own sexual and social contract, and your ceremony can reflect that."

The same actually holds true for opposite-sex couples as well. You can use the script society hands you, or you can use your own.
Apr 19, 2012 Captain Mike joined My Stranger Face
Apr 19, 2012 Captain Mike commented on Savage Love.
"Anal done right isn't painful..."

I agree in general, but that really depends on what you're going for. Sometimes when I have anal sex, I want it to hurt.