commented on SL Letter of the Day: Sample Sizes
Yea, this chick needs to DTMFA immediately. The way she's describing it, sex doesn't seem remotely fun for her, and her bf sounds like a selfish douche.
When I was early 20s I had never gotten off from a guy...EVER. I thought my body was just difficult, sort of the way this chick is talking. Then I met a guy who was 1) very determined and 2) very talented, and holy hell. I learned what it takes for a guy to get me off, and I'm not afraid to ask for it now.
Sex isn't just about the PIV. DTMFA and find a guy who loves exploring your body, finding what feels good and what gets you hot. and loves putting in the time to get you off. Even if it doesn't work every time (still doesn't for me, sometimes my body just isn't in the mood), that kind of attention and intimacy is ultimately what sex is all about.
commented on SL Letter of the Day: Plan Ahead and Plan B
What screams fake to me isn't the stupidity, but the "I've been reading you since the 90s and THIS is what has me stumped." Seriously? She totally just wanted her ten minutes of fame and to brag about her non-kegeled "twat" strength.
Apr 19, 2012
commented on Got Herpes?
Thank you Dan...I have HSV1 and have had the exact same experience as the author. It's forced me to reevaluate how I view sex and potential sexual partners, in a really good way. I've been trying to figure out the best way to have that conversation with people for 7 years and I find it interesting how my path has followed a similar one to the author. I will say however, that I've learned having "the talk" with a potential partner is usually best done BEFORE things start to get hot 'n heavy. Not after your bra is already on the floor.
@5 - I've always considered HSV-1 as the "good" kind, and that has nothing to do with genitals vs face (I got HSV-1 on my genitals). But it is a much more mild virus. Whereas most people with HSV-2 get regular outbreaks, I haven't had a single outbreak since I first contracted it 7 years ago which is apparently fairly typical.