commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: How Soon Should He Bring Up His DUIs?
My boyfriend nearly had a weeping breakdown when he "confessed" to me that he had done sex work in his twenties. My reaction was, "so?" Sometimes we build up our past sins far beyond their real dimension.
For whatever it's worth, I like poppers, he does not. So I never use them when I'm with him.
commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Straight Uncle Offers Trans Nephew A Summer in the City (But Mom Says No)
My gay biracial vegetarian Bhuddist sci-fi/fantasy fan nephew lives in a small town in a very red state, where he is considered very strange. I brought him out to the Big City for a long weekend, where he saw that there are hundreds of others just like him. We went to the sci-fi/fantasy book store, where he thought he'd found heaven. He had a great eye-opening experience. I don't know what his plans will be, but at least he knows his city uncle is on his side, and that there are options.
Sep 14, 2016
commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Skip That White Wedding
Will there be free booze?
I have found that interaction with the bride, groom, best man etc, at weddings is extremely minimal. I doubt there will be time or opportunity for arguments, except for, perhaps with the groom's father. Fuck them and stay home.
Dec 14, 2015
commented on Home Desecrating Tips
At some point in the early-mid 20th century, all cemeteries were removed from within city limits of San Francisco. A stroll (!) through Buena Vista Park will reveal that many of the walkway gutters are lined with old tombstones.