Aug 8, 2012 Novia commented on Savage Love.
Dan, I'm having withdrawal! Seriously though I hope you're enjoying your holiday.
Your advice to FL was spot on. That ex of hers sounds creepy though.
Aug 1, 2012 Novia commented on Savage Love.
CA mum took what I wanted to say and then said it better. :-)
Jul 11, 2012 Novia commented on Savage Love.
GIMP, I don't think you should get back together with her, once bitten twice shy and all that. Just knowing she has the capacity to do that will erase any trust I would have in her.

"You can't be a lesbian about this." lqtm. We lesbians don't have a very good name when it comes to break ups.
As for using sex as an could work but it sounds like a bit more is wrong with your relationship than low libido and weight gain.
Jul 9, 2012 Novia commented on Pat Robertson: The Bible Is "Terribly Wrong".
Oh the irony and sheer hypocrisy! Christians take too many liberties with the bible for them to use it as a conclusive evidence of their homophobia...and yet they do.
Jun 20, 2012 Novia commented on Savage Love.
@ 2, 5 and 10, cheers to being single and liking it! :-)

SPANK your guy's excuses are waay fishy! It'd help to find out what he's covering up/ lying about. Also, if you'rd monogamish, wouldn't it be ok to just go have sex with someone else?
May 18, 2012 Novia commented on SL Letter of the Day: Show This Woman Some Love.
You've been strong for 10 years. You can break down a bit now, but then get back back up. You clearly were made to thrive, and you will. Just give it time.
You are the best thing to happen to your nephew, just continue to be there for him and love him.
All the best, and hugs.
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May 3, 2012 Novia commented on Dan Savage SAVAGES the Pope!.
Also, did you know that on top of 'savaging' the pope, Dan is making us gay people choose between religion and homosexuality? *abomination!*