May 21, 2012
TheProfessor1961 commented on
SL Letter of the Day: Show This Woman Some Love.
There's nothing I can say that hasn't already been said, and probably said better, by previous commenters. But you are, in fact, awesome, VABG. You are making a life-changing, and maybe even life-saving, difference in your nephew's life. Your family are sad, misguided, hateful people. You are a fucking hero.
May 10, 2012
TheProfessor1961 commented on
Savage Love.
@30, @47 covered it quite well. We've always contacted independent providers who have a strong web presence and have been vetted and well-reviewed on sites like TER. Then we take the time to get to know each person (to the extent possible) via e-mail and phone calls. We book extended time, and have dinner or drinks to start to make sure everyone is comfortable. Then we just relax and enjoy each other.
May 9, 2012
TheProfessor1961 commented on
Savage Love.
ABW should absolutely consider the "professional" option. I am a straight man with a bi wife. Our version of "monogamish" involves the occasional threesome with an escort as our "guest star". We have never had a bad experience, and have met some really wonderful people, and have established ongoing, friendly (but always at a certain professional distance), relationships with a couple of them. The fundamentally commercial nature of the encounter removes (for us, at least) any emotional baggage and lets you focus on the experience.