May 4, 2013 DE commented on SL Letter of the Day: No Magic Beans.
I'm sorry, I missed the option: talk to eachother about it. Something's wrong if the only moment you had an honest conversation about what you like and dislike in bed (ie what you're doing doesn't do it for me) is in an attempt to hurt him during a flaming row. Try talking. Ask him what he does and doesn't like, maybe you can get him interested in a threeway, or add some power-play, or ask him whether he would be willing to use a vibrator on you. You never know, in some situations communication is useful. If you are reluctant to ask for what you want, how do you expect him to know/understand that you desire this so much?
Maybe this sexlife cannot be saved/rekindled/kickstarted, but how about trying to see how HE feels before divorcing/cheating/looking for a piece on the side/settling for sexlessness?
Feb 27, 2013 DE commented on Savage Love.
my 2 cents on IUDs: I have a Mirena IUD, and no problems whatsoever. Some very light cramps when setting it (without having given birth), and no issues after. Any and all kinds of sex still great.
Sure, with IUD you'll still need condoms, but last time I slept with an asshole, and turned out the condom broke, I didn't have to freak out all that much. I'm just saying: make sure you have extra precautions for the really important stuff like pregnancy-prevention!

@18&21: me too! Immediately checked my twitter and disappointed Dan didn't come through. We'd love to see those pics Dan!
Feb 11, 2013 DE commented on SL Letter of the Day: Strap-On Prude?.
@12 Because otherwise he'd get ambushed in the comments for 'not recognizing the letter as an obvious fake!!!'. Which, by the way, it must be.
Makes me wonder though, why run these questions that obviously only deserve three word answers: 'try talking stupid!' I feel like I still haven't had my daily SLOG-fix..
Oct 30, 2012 DE commented on With You In Spirit and In Mucking Out, New York.
Dan: isn't it great to see that so many people are thrilled to be able to see a little part of your life (aka your disaster-filled kitchen)?
Also: second that #19, brilliant!
Jul 11, 2012 DE commented on SL Letter of the Day: Foreplay for Assholes.
Am I the only one whose bullshitmeter went off on this one? I mean, question embedded in random long story where the answer is already long clear, and the picture any letter writer would gladly claim they're fucking, and so willing disclosed? Oh, and the references to podcast, and archive, and GGG, and really I know everything already and am JUST WASTING YOUR TIME! But look, hot picture!!!
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May 16, 2012 DE commented on Every Child Deserves a Mother and a Father.
I agree with @12, this is horrid.
The story is nauseating and sad, and using that for gay rights is just wrong. I'm the first to say that parents in heterosexual marriages can be really bad parents, and that quality of raising and love does not depend on gender. But using the tragic deaths of 4 kids to further same-sex marriage is abusing the sadness of these children's deaths.
Shame on you Dan.