Howlin' Jed
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Oct 2, 2013 Howlin' Jed commented on Savage Love.
BK is obviously talking about his dick. In the first place, if you say "I took a picture of my shit" and you mean a picture of feces, you would follow it up with, "and I mean feces," to differentiate from the common definition of "my shit."
Secondly, I have never heard of anyone taking pictures of their feces. Dick pix, however, are as common as sin, apparently. The kids today, with their genital pictures. In my day, if you wanted to send someone a picture of your junk, you had to sit in front of a mirror with a sketch pad. Then you had to buy some postage stamps. Lots of postage stamps. And we liked it that way.
Aug 27, 2013 Howlin' Jed commented on Savage Love.
Giving Grabby Hayes the benefit of the doubt, he might be thinking that he's playing some sort of little game between them. "Look, I'm violating your boundaries! (But not really) (tee-hee)" In which case the answer is the same. "No you really are violating my boundaries. Knock it off!" If he doesn't, then he's just really in to violating boundaries in which case, goodbye.
Jan 15, 2013 Howlin' Jed commented on Savage Love.

Thank you so much for putting the image of Tigger shopping for sex toys in my head.
Jan 9, 2013 Howlin' Jed commented on Savage Love.
"What I regret is her sticking her thing in my butt. "

Who said that? Was it Nathan Hale?
Jan 3, 2013 Howlin' Jed commented on Savage Love.
To LW4:

Everything ends, and usually badly.
Dec 26, 2012 Howlin' Jed commented on Savage Love.
@9: Notary Public to the rescue!
Nov 7, 2012 Howlin' Jed commented on Savage Love.
@25, AFinch

So much of pegging is visual, and yet the view isn't always the best, if you know what I mean, that recording is way too tempting. Also, people often wind up separated from their partners for varying periods of time. It's like a porno where you don't have to pretend that the guy is you.
Oct 31, 2012 Howlin' Jed commented on Savage Love.
Dan, I was going to vote for Obama, as well as Progressive Democrats for Congress and State Senate (a really important one), but I'm not sure I'll be able to uncross my legs by Election Day now.
Oct 10, 2012 Howlin' Jed commented on Savage Love.
LIFE's boyfriend may be pro-choice, but if he's really anti-abortion as well she should really consider whether she wants to date him. He won't try to make abortion illegal, but he can be a royal douche in the event of an unwanted pregnancy. He can lobby her to carry to term beforehand, adding extra layers of stress she doesn't need; he can "refuse to participate," requiring her to get a ride from someone else and pay for it herself; he can shame her afterwards with nasty comments and looks, and "grieving" with his friends - i.e. telling everyone they know about it.

That said, Dan's response is still The Worst Advice On The Internets.
Oct 10, 2012 Howlin' Jed commented on Savage Love.
Is it possible to insert an edit after the column's been posted? There should be an insert that says "UPDATE: DON'T DO THIS" after the advice to lie about the pregnancy. On the off chance that LIFE actually takes Dan's horrible, horrible advice, he should make every effort to make sure she knows how wrong he was about this.

Her BF is probably one of those "I'm anti-abortion, but I'm pro-choice" guys (I used to be one). There are plenty of them. For guys, pregnancy is always a thought experiment. She's not going to change his mind with one argument, but she can encourage him to be more adult about it and try to imagine someone else's experience. Or not. In either case, under no circumstances should she lie to him.