commented on SLLOTD: Women's Work
I recommend keeping separate places; if the mess at his place is too much, meet at yours. Don't move in together though.
commented on SL Letter of the Day: Pray Away
While in general I agree that there is no god, and if your religion is making you miserable you should leave or modify it....
If this guy really DOES want to stay with the religion, and a life of celibacy and solitude - just do it. Wear a hair shirt, lash yourself when the feelings are strong, take cold baths, join a monastery - all the things religious people have been doing for eons to deny their urges.
And if you after you die you actually meet up with whatever god you did all this for... be sure to ask him/her/them why they condemned you to such a life.
Still think ditching the religion is the healthier way to go, but if you want to be miserable, go for it - but don't expect sympathy from others.
commented on SL Letter of the Day: I'm Out
If you have to ask, you're a sexist a*hole and you should never use the word "cunt" again for the rest of your life.
Obviously, you're just trying to justify yourself rather than just accepting some people are offended by it, learning from it, and moving on.
commented on Savage Love
oh please don't get rid of those images of tanned/chiseled gay guys! as a straight female, I love the eye candy.
Agree, there are plenty of images that aren't tanned/chiseled and I don't want any male to get sucked into eating disorders...
but please leave me some eye candy!
commented on SL Letter of the Day: A Hopeful Thank-You Note
re the Brian Brown debate (I know, slightly off-topic) - did anyone else feel that his argument came down to "I don't like gays and therefore that part of the bible is sacrosanct, even though other parts have been challenged or ignored over time. I don't like gays, therefore the bible supports me." I don't know that there is any way to change the minds of people like that.