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Geeky hippie Latina. Obsessed with health and debauchery alike.
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- What song or movie makes you cry?: Claire de Lune/Mrs. Doubtfire
- What's your biggest grammatical pet peeve?: "I'm good" instead of "I'm well"
- Meridian or Film Forum
- Jesus or Santa (sexually)?
- God is: uneducated and pathological
Apr 24
Auragasm commented on Internet Privacy Threatened by the Bastard Offspring of SOPA/PIPA: CISPA.
Auragasm commented on Internet Privacy Threatened by the Bastard Offspring of SOPA/PIPA: CISPA.
Apr 16
Auragasm commented on Savage Love Episode 338.
Auragasm commented on Savage Love Episode 338.
Is rape ever covered in Sex Ed courses? When I was in school, we got a pretty comprehensive education in 6th, 8th, and 9th grade. Pregnancy prevention, child birth, those superfun old STD slideshows, all that was covered. Seems like something is missing.
I know Dan sometimes regrets that most people skip over sex for pleasure when teaching kids. I really think sexual assault and slut-shaming are things that should be discussed at the same time. With boys and girls in the room. Could be very eye-opening to both the teachers and students.
Kids are slaves to a mindless and sex-drenched pop culture these days. They need guidance (I wish I knew about SL when I was in high school, would have saved me a lot of grief).
Rape should be disregarded as something that's emasculating. If a guy is too chicken to ask a girl for sex, and chooses to take it by force, HE should be bullied, not his victim. He OUGHT to be locked up.
All kids should be encouraged to be a "hero" or at least an adult if they see a possible rape in progress.
And both sexes should be taught about how alcohol often plays a major role in rape cases.
We know kids aren't stupid, and new generations can bring about great change. Look at the way they've come around for their gay friends! Why can't one of those awful teen-idols sing about why rape is as passé as homophobia? Somebody trendy needs to make this a pet-cause.
Cue Ryan Gosling? Hey girl!
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I know Dan sometimes regrets that most people skip over sex for pleasure when teaching kids. I really think sexual assault and slut-shaming are things that should be discussed at the same time. With boys and girls in the room. Could be very eye-opening to both the teachers and students.
Kids are slaves to a mindless and sex-drenched pop culture these days. They need guidance (I wish I knew about SL when I was in high school, would have saved me a lot of grief).
Rape should be disregarded as something that's emasculating. If a guy is too chicken to ask a girl for sex, and chooses to take it by force, HE should be bullied, not his victim. He OUGHT to be locked up.
All kids should be encouraged to be a "hero" or at least an adult if they see a possible rape in progress.
And both sexes should be taught about how alcohol often plays a major role in rape cases.
We know kids aren't stupid, and new generations can bring about great change. Look at the way they've come around for their gay friends! Why can't one of those awful teen-idols sing about why rape is as passé as homophobia? Somebody trendy needs to make this a pet-cause.
Cue Ryan Gosling? Hey girl!
Mar 13
Auragasm commented on Savage Love.
Auragasm commented on Savage Love.
Correction: I've reread and I can't tell if LAW is male of female. I just assumed they were gay because they met in a sports forum and the racist hates "men of color".
Regardless, LAW needs a stronger sense of identity.
Regardless, LAW needs a stronger sense of identity.
Mar 13
Auragasm commented on Savage Love.
Auragasm commented on Savage Love.
It makes me sad to discover there are gay racists out there (even sadder than meeting gay Christians). I'm the kid of an interracial couple, and that's one of the biggest reasons I promote LGBT causes; there was a time when my parents relationship was really controversial, and there are still people who believe their love is wrong.
This gay bigot doesn't see the double-standard there? He's probably as closeted as he is racist, or at least, he deserves to be.
LW3 needs to study history a little more. Your heritage is tragic, beautiful, and triumphant. You sound very young, I hope as you grow you become as proud of being "exotic" as you are being queer.
When I was a teen I had cyber-boyfriends, too. I can't even remember their names.
This gay bigot doesn't see the double-standard there? He's probably as closeted as he is racist, or at least, he deserves to be.
LW3 needs to study history a little more. Your heritage is tragic, beautiful, and triumphant. You sound very young, I hope as you grow you become as proud of being "exotic" as you are being queer.
When I was a teen I had cyber-boyfriends, too. I can't even remember their names.
Mar 5
Auragasm commented on Coheed and Cambria at the Pet Shop.
Auragasm commented on Coheed and Cambria at the Pet Shop.
Yo Coheed is great. Like Iron Maiden and Thin Lizzy had a baby, and then that baby wrote a space opera, which Mark E. Mark wants to turn it into a film. TRUE STORY!
Feb 27
Auragasm commented on In Which I Imagine Having A Sweet-Ass Rack.
Auragasm commented on In Which I Imagine Having A Sweet-Ass Rack.
When I was a teenager, and about 30 pounds heavier, I had D cups. They did nothing for my self-esteem, if anything I was more self-conscious. I wasn't given any special privileges, except getting nasty comments from creepy guys that I was too young to know how to defend myself against. I wore T-Shirts, because anything with style gave me major cleavage and would distract everybody, most of all myself.
I've slimmed up a lot and now I'm extremely happy at size B. It's much easier to be active and wear nice tops. More than a handful is a waste, says my husband. If only I could do something about how elastic the skin is now, grr.
I've slimmed up a lot and now I'm extremely happy at size B. It's much easier to be active and wear nice tops. More than a handful is a waste, says my husband. If only I could do something about how elastic the skin is now, grr.
Nov 20, 2012
Auragasm commented on Savage Love.
Auragasm commented on Savage Love.
@144, You're right, just 25% of us come consistently from penetrative vaginal sex, and I don't consistently (so many factors). I DO find that if I get foreplay in the form of cunnilingus before the main course I'm more likely to have multis, and anecdotally, this holds up among my friends.
However, the last time I recieved oral without penetration right afterward, I was still a "virgin". Maybe my post-cunnilingus expectations of penetration make it easier for me to come? My partners seem to enjoy it too, so everybody wins, we like variety. But given the choice between getting head with no penetration afterward, and using my vibrator...sorry fellas.
When I see statistics like "80% of women don't feel a thing from penetration" I wonder what the hell is in it for those women, besides making her partner feel good, or babies if she's into that kind of thing. I honestly have a hard time believing it because I hang out in environments like this. I guess that's why science is still in search of the elusive G-Spot.
However, the last time I recieved oral without penetration right afterward, I was still a "virgin". Maybe my post-cunnilingus expectations of penetration make it easier for me to come? My partners seem to enjoy it too, so everybody wins, we like variety. But given the choice between getting head with no penetration afterward, and using my vibrator...sorry fellas.
When I see statistics like "80% of women don't feel a thing from penetration" I wonder what the hell is in it for those women, besides making her partner feel good, or babies if she's into that kind of thing. I honestly have a hard time believing it because I hang out in environments like this. I guess that's why science is still in search of the elusive G-Spot.
Nov 16, 2012
Auragasm commented on Savage Love.
Auragasm commented on Savage Love.
"Those of us who legitimately don't like it are in a minority. I'm 99% sure we're the same minority that gets off from penetrative sex"
That's a weird hypothesis to make. I get off on all of it, and I'm not a minority.
Dude, can't the straight people offended by the term "breeder" just let them have this one epithet? Good for you for not having children and sneering at people who do (like I do), but that word is so much less derogatory than what LGBT people have been putting up with for decades. It's like a white person getting offended at being called a "cracker" or "gringo". I know you take your use of birth control VERY SERIOUSLY, but it's not really that offensive.
That's a weird hypothesis to make. I get off on all of it, and I'm not a minority.
Dude, can't the straight people offended by the term "breeder" just let them have this one epithet? Good for you for not having children and sneering at people who do (like I do), but that word is so much less derogatory than what LGBT people have been putting up with for decades. It's like a white person getting offended at being called a "cracker" or "gringo". I know you take your use of birth control VERY SERIOUSLY, but it's not really that offensive.
Nov 15, 2012
Auragasm commented on Savage Love.
Auragasm commented on Savage Love.
When somebody performs cunninglingus, is it appropriate to call it "giving head"? I use it all the time.
WSF: I love being eaten out, but sometimes if he springs it on me without any pretext and I'm not in the mood, I'll get really ticklish down there. Make sure your woman is in the mood, and that the rest of her body is nice and warm. It can get cold without skin-to-skin contact! It's been said, but if you gave her some intense digital stimulation she might not notice the tickle.
BBB: I have a hard time sucking to completion, but experience has taught me that some men's stamina is significantly lower after a night's sleep. I've had a 100% success rate with early morning BJ's...
@91, Masochist, huh? Ever had your clit sucked really hard? That shit hurts! Maybe gettting tied up and sucked violently might turn your crank?
@15, Agreed, strategic pandering, plain and simple. But it certainly helped our cause over here. I hope he comes out in support of cannabis reform too. Call your dogs off, Obeezy!
WSF: I love being eaten out, but sometimes if he springs it on me without any pretext and I'm not in the mood, I'll get really ticklish down there. Make sure your woman is in the mood, and that the rest of her body is nice and warm. It can get cold without skin-to-skin contact! It's been said, but if you gave her some intense digital stimulation she might not notice the tickle.
BBB: I have a hard time sucking to completion, but experience has taught me that some men's stamina is significantly lower after a night's sleep. I've had a 100% success rate with early morning BJ's...
@91, Masochist, huh? Ever had your clit sucked really hard? That shit hurts! Maybe gettting tied up and sucked violently might turn your crank?
@15, Agreed, strategic pandering, plain and simple. But it certainly helped our cause over here. I hope he comes out in support of cannabis reform too. Call your dogs off, Obeezy!
Nov 15, 2012
Auragasm commented on I, Anonymous.
Auragasm commented on I, Anonymous.
They played "Sweet Home Alabama" at my wedding, and though I was clearly annoyed, it didn't ruin my day. The majority of my guests were on the dance floor, so it didn't really matter.
Weddings are a formality, not "the most important day of your life" and brides are usually way too busy schmoozin' to dictate every little detail. Play that dated generic shit, watch your drunken relatives have a blast, it's great.
That being said, I never want to be the bride again. Being a guest is much better.
Weddings are a formality, not "the most important day of your life" and brides are usually way too busy schmoozin' to dictate every little detail. Play that dated generic shit, watch your drunken relatives have a blast, it's great.
That being said, I never want to be the bride again. Being a guest is much better.
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