Dec 2, 2015 Faradn commented on Savage Love.
Sorry about the double post, I'm used to Disquis where posts happen immediately. I reported my second comment for removal.
Dec 2, 2015 Faradn commented on Savage Love.
You may be right, but that's a situation where she really needed to be clear, or clarify later.

It sounds like your boyfriend is being kind of insensitive.

What you said re: different offerings in threesomes seems really reductive. Everyone looks different, has a different sexual style, and a different personality. That's the appeal of a threesome for a lot of people.
Dec 2, 2015 Faradn commented on Savage Love.
That might be the case, but it sounds like she didn't make that clear. That's something you really need to make clear.

As per the above, it sounds like your boyfriend is being pretty insensitive.

What you said about threesomes and what people have to offer seems really reductive. Everyone has different appearance, different sexual style, is a different person. That's a big part of the appeal of threesomes.
Dec 2, 2015 Faradn commented on Savage Love.
Dan's pro-ggg bias can be a bit strong. The behavior of the woman in ANGST is clearly shitty. I would say she might even be trying in a very cruel way to drive the guy to break up with her--which he should absolutely do.
Apr 13, 2014 Faradn commented on Savage Love.
Thank you Dan, for your response to CREAMPIE.

I'd add (though you probably wouldn't go as far) that fetishizing people for their race is gross as hell. Just because it's part of someone's sexuality doesn't mean it's not racist.
Apr 10, 2013 Faradn commented on Savage Love Episode 337.
A woman taking care of her senile father discovers he is a pedophile--that sounds like the plot of a Booker Prize contender.
Feb 7, 2013 Faradn commented on Savage Love Episode 328.
@18 There are two definitions of "theory," the colloquial and the scientific. Both definitions are valid, depending on the context. We shouldn't let fundies take away the multiple meanings of words for the sake of simplicity.

@22 You are bottom-dwelling trash. Take your weak bullshit elsewhere.
Nov 9, 2012 Faradn commented on We Couldn't Have Done It Without Them.
You're welcome. But really, it is easy for us. Gay rights are a no-brainer issue for anyone of sense, and straight people speaking about it catch comparatively little flak. (Most of) you folks did the bravest and most important thing for your own cause--you came out.
Nov 5, 2012 Faradn commented on Savage Love.

Your wide-eyed 1950's writing voice is only believable in that your views are better suited to the 1950's. This is the most passively aggressive trolling comment I have seen in some time. Wow, golly gee!
Nov 2, 2012 Faradn commented on Savage Love.

I often hear these naturalistic arguments about what choices men and women should get, as though it's of our hands because biology. This is the Naturalistic Fallacy--the same fallacy a lot of people use to oppose abortion and birth control in general.

As to children being affected, I don't think anyone here is saying men should get the opt-out choice longer than women get the abortion choice. My personal thought is that men should get somewhat less time to opt out than women, so that the woman has enough time to make the decision knowing she won't be getting that support if she keeps the child.