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- SVN or Git
- What keeps you up at night?: thinking about theology
- Tom Skerritt or Dave Matthews
- What's your favorite Charles Mudede post?: That one with the picture of a building with incomprehensible Marxist allusions
- Where's your hairiest square inch?: my head
kim in portland is sipping Wild Turkey 101 Rye and it's nice, real nice.
7:48 PM yesterday
kim in portland commented on Precious: Brutal New Classic or African-American Bruno?.
kim in portland commented on Precious: Brutal New Classic or African-American Bruno?.
Thanks, Stella.
7:44 PM yesterday
kim in portland commented on Today in Traditional Marriage.
kim in portland commented on Today in Traditional Marriage.
Fuck! This is way beyond bedroom play. Dammit, those kids have a 70% chance of either becoming abusive or getting involved in abusive relationships. I'm agreeing that it is abuse, perhaps (and I say that seriously doubting it) it was consensual for her, but it was abusive to those children. This makes my blood boil.
1:57 PM yesterday
kim in portland commented on Do Your Balls Hang Low?.
kim in portland commented on Do Your Balls Hang Low?.
Sad to hear that some lack appreciation for the pensis and it's beauty.
1:07 PM yesterday
kim in portland commented on SL Letter of the Day: Hot & Drunk.
kim in portland commented on SL Letter of the Day: Hot & Drunk.
rewind: @ 28
clean and sober.
clean and sober.
1:05 PM yesterday
kim in portland commented on SL Letter of the Day: Hot & Drunk.
kim in portland commented on SL Letter of the Day: Hot & Drunk.
TSO,
Here is the advice I've given numerous times to women trying to get out of emotionally and physically abusive marriages and LTRs, some whose partners have substance abuse problems. They, like you, all think he is the "one", and that they can fix him.
1) You can't fix someone who doesn't seek to fix themselves. There is no amount of love, joy, peace, kindness, gentleness, patience, goodness, faithfulness, or self-control you can offer him. You'll never be able to love him enough. He has to love himself enough to get healthy.
2) If he truly is the "one" (For the record I don't believe in the idea of the "one".), but understand that you may, then you will find each other again, when he is clean an sober.
Basically you have two choices: a)watch him drink himself to death and suffer with him, and b) break it off and set him free to hopefully get healthy for himself.
Take Dan's advice. You are worth it.
Best wishes.
Here is the advice I've given numerous times to women trying to get out of emotionally and physically abusive marriages and LTRs, some whose partners have substance abuse problems. They, like you, all think he is the "one", and that they can fix him.
1) You can't fix someone who doesn't seek to fix themselves. There is no amount of love, joy, peace, kindness, gentleness, patience, goodness, faithfulness, or self-control you can offer him. You'll never be able to love him enough. He has to love himself enough to get healthy.
2) If he truly is the "one" (For the record I don't believe in the idea of the "one".), but understand that you may, then you will find each other again, when he is clean an sober.
Basically you have two choices: a)watch him drink himself to death and suffer with him, and b) break it off and set him free to hopefully get healthy for himself.
Take Dan's advice. You are worth it.
Best wishes.
9:17 AM yesterday
kim in portland commented on Becoming a Man.
kim in portland commented on Becoming a Man.
Yay, for Chaz. I wish him great joy and great peace.
8:50 AM yesterday
kim in portland commented on Life and Death in a Recliner in South Carolina.
kim in portland commented on Life and Death in a Recliner in South Carolina.
No, not funny, really sad.
Nov 19
kim in portland commented on SL Letter of the Day: My Dick Is Bent.
kim in portland commented on SL Letter of the Day: My Dick Is Bent.
@ 12, thanks Akbar Fazil. Keep using it for good.
Nov 19
kim in portland commented on All The Best Men Are Taken.
kim in portland commented on All The Best Men Are Taken.
Sometimes it works in reverse. I had a guy that was only interested in me when I was seeing someone else. People are weird.
Nov 19
kim in portland commented on Hate Crimes Down In Los Angeles County With One Exception.....
kim in portland commented on Hate Crimes Down In Los Angeles County With One Exception.....
It would seem you sleep with one eye open.
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