Nov 20
seandr commented on
Today in Traditional Marriage.
The extent of the beatings and the involvement of the kids pushes this case clearly into the abuse category. And even if this woman was so messed up that she really wanted this, I think a non-abusive husband would have drawn the line for her.
Still, it raises an interesting question - are consenting adults who engage in pain sex play exposing themselves to possible domestic violence charges? I'm thinking of The Password at this year's HUMP, and that lesbian torture video from 1 or 2 HUMPs ago.
Nov 18
seandr commented on
SL Letters of the Day: Thank-You Notes.
"I agree with the caller who says you've been sounding a bit down lately"
Well, I would certainly have some down days if I had to deal with all the trolls and haters that you do.
If you are feeling bummed out, you should know that there is a certain genius to Savage Love (both the concept and the execution), and unlike most people who punch the clock at some meaningless job, you actually get to do something that helps people.
Nov 17
seandr commented on
Viva Vulva Viagra!.
@25
No one is saying women have to do anything they don't want to do. If you are happy not fucking your husband, more power to you.
At the same time, if your husband is miserable at the loss of his sex life and seeks action elsewhere, more power to him.
I'm really looking forward to the day when The Stranger extracts its nose from McGinn's ass.