commented on It's Spring! Who's Ready for Street Harassment?
Jesus, Mary, and Joseph Stalin people this in not rocket science. No matter what you, your friends, or oblivious troll boy think, commenting on the body parts of random women makes you a douche. If you don’t have the empathy or intellectual bandwidth to grasp this concept on your own, the comments made by you know, actual women on this (and many other) treads should clue you in. If you behave like this you’re a douche. If your friend behaves like this, and you don’t smack him in the back of the head and tell him he’s being a douche, you’re a douche by proxy. You don’t belong in polite society. Maybe you should think of buying an Ed Hardy shirt and applying to be the new cast member on Jersey Shore.
commented on Meanwhile On My Mantle
My wife (beloved troll annoyer Lissa) is so going to covet that rabbit. The made by crazy holocaust denier may put her off a bit though. That S&W in the presentation case behind it, yeah we’re both going to covet that. Damn I hate it when people with ugly, repulsive beliefs make beautiful things I want to own. The cognitive dissonance it burns, it burns.
Apr 20, 2012
commented on Got Herpes?
I’ve had HSV-2 since the late 80’s. I’ve found that when I disclose, my positive response ratio is about 2:1. Granted, I date a lot in the Poly and S/M community and I think those communities do tend to be a lot more informed about STDs than your average Joe. As one of my partners said after we had the talk “O sweetie, anybody who was anybody in the 80’s has Herpes.” I have had a couple of times when a potential new partner was game, but their other partner vetoed because of my status. The case I usually make is I know I’m infected, and unlike the 80% of infected people who don’t know, I’m on suppression and take precautions not to spread it. This makes me much safer than the average guy you may pick up.
As for disclosing right before sex, dick move. I always have the talk very early on. As soon as it seems clear there’s an interest I tell her I have two potential deal breakers. I’m Poly, and have two lovers I’m not giving up, and I have Herpes.
Dec 9, 2011
commented on My Playlist
My Arts-Le Tigre
(My Baby Does) Good Sculptures-The Rezillos
My Disco-Big Black
My Hometown-Girl Trouble
My My Metrocard-Le Tigre