Jul 1 RDM commented on Savage Love.
Encouraging creeps to think that a woman who is uninterested must be a lesbian is really shitty behavior.
Apr 6 RDM commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day:.
"I'm not interested in a relationship and am not a "scene" guy or frequenter of gay bars. I just want some quick and easy dick"

We often talk about biphobia in the gay community, but so rarely do we talk about the homophobia of closety bisexuals.
Feb 22 RDM commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: The Career Counselor Is In.
#9: As an elite professional in the STEM field, I'd like to point out that good writing skills are essential to STEM (and almost every other profession), yet rarely taught in STEM classes. So, don't hesitate about taking that Comp Lit or Philosophy class.
Feb 16 RDM commented on The Walking Dead Recap: The Convenient Rocket Launcher.
@2: Convenient stupidity is more charismatic than convenient rocket launcher
Jan 18 RDM commented on Most of the 154 Stores Walmart Is Closing in the US Are in Red States.
As a resident of a very blue city in a very blue state about to lose a Wal-Mart (Long Beach, CA), I am baffled by this narrative you're trying to weave. Is there some cause/effect relationship between the local politics and the decision to close a Wal-Mart?
Jan 15 RDM commented on Savage Love.
Last I checked, New York, Toronto, and other big cities had thriving communities of queers of color. Some social circles and venues are dominated by gay white men, but they do not lay claim to entire cities.
Nov 17, 2015 RDM commented on Why Putting the French Flag on the Space Needle Is Racist.
Mudede could complain about the lack of the Russian flag to commemorate the 250 Russians on that plane shot down by ISIS in Sinai, but that wouldn't fit into the narrative that the Space Needle is racist.
Oct 28, 2015 RDM commented on SL Letter of the Day: The Red Sweater Code.
Dan Savage is a sex advice columnist, not a writing advice columnist. He's allowed to give writers terrible professional advice.
Oct 26, 2015 RDM commented on The Walking Dead Recap: Someone Died… or Did or Didn't They?!?.
I will be pretty darned pissed if he's alive. This show broadcasts it's intentions to the audience so hard. To add a coy little "fooled you!" moment would just be another reminder that the writers think I'm just some blob, unable to feel emotions UNLESS INSTRUCTED TO WITH ALL CAPS!
Sep 2, 2015 RDM commented on Anti-Semitic Remarks at a Black Lives Matter Event Appear to Go Unchallenged.
You have to jump through a lot of hoops to avoid seeing this as antisemitism.