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Nov 13, 2012 Andy James commented on Savage Love Episode 316.
sorry for the double-posting, oops. maybe someone could remove that for me
Nov 13, 2012 Andy James commented on Savage Love Episode 316.
One point I think was glossed over with respect to "drunk groping"; I think often times many of us get fixated on a crush for whatever reason (social conditioning/evolution/scarcity etc.). I know guys who would suggest; "go f*** ten other women". Though this is pretty crude, the idea is to a) open your eyes to the fact that there are so many potential partners out there, and b) sharpen up your social skills. So get out and date, the result will be more options, sharper social skills, and an abundance mindset. If you still want that girl in the end you'll be coming from a way healthier place, not just sitting around pining after her.
Nov 13, 2012 Andy James joined My Stranger Face
Nov 13, 2012 Andy James joined My Stranger Face
Nov 13, 2012 Andy James commented on Savage Love Episode 316.
One point that I think got glossed over with respect to "drunk groping"; I think there is often a trend for people to get hung up on a crush for whatever reason (evolution/social conditioning/ scarcity, etc) and end up hoping it will be like the movies where the guy will get the girl in the end because its soul-mates, destiny, fate, shes-the-one etc. I know some guys who land on the extreme opposite end of this argument who would say instead; "go f*$% ten other women". Though this is a pretty crass viewpoint, the idea is that there are plenty of potential partners out there, get out and date as much as possible, open your eyes to what options are out there and also tune up your social skills. You'll end up with more options and in the end if you still want that girl, you'll have the tools and more of an abundance mentality that you might have a shot.
 
 

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