Jan 19, 2016 JudT commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: How Can I Unscrew This Screwed Pooch?.
Nope, the boy remains a trainwreck. He chased after a woman he didn't actually want, and seriously thinks that pleading with Ms Heart is going to get him some place. He also feels oddly entitled to Ms Heart to faithfully wait for him indefinitely while he was seeing someone else the whole time they were involved. Nope, nope, nope.

The guy needs to learn that sometimes in a love triangle, the best option is "none of the above."
Nov 2, 2015 JudT commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Three Letters In One.
Actually, this girl kinda red flags for me. Not the bit about not wanting kids or whatever (her business), but she married young and she's been with her dude since she was like 19, doesn't really have friends or associate with her family since marrying the dude. This seems super unhealthy to me, and has me wondering if her husband is the manipulative, controlling type, since she seems all lined up for a cage.
Aug 17, 2015 JudT commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: The Asexual Dom.
This girl seriously needs to chill out and get herself to a munch. It's not that scary, really, and toppy straight (or, in this case, straight-ish) women are in high demand. She could have her pick of gentlemen fairly easily, as well as learn a lot about how to do these things without actually causing serious harm. If I thought she was in my metro area, I'd recommend a few places myself that do excellent outreach and education.
Feb 3, 2015 JudT commented on SL Letter of the Day: My Boss Is a Married Lady and I'm Not a Single Lady—Should I Fuck Her Anyway?.
@15: Gertrude Award?

Personally, I think LW is thinking with her clit again, and the probability of non-clusterfuck if she gets naked with this woman is near zero.
Nov 4, 2014 JudT commented on Unraveling a Mystery in Storage at the Seattle Art Museum.
Is it just me or is the formatting messed up, making most of this illegible?
Feb 1, 2014 JudT commented on A Morning Message from Mormons.
I love that they assume masturbation is a guy thing. Like it's something women never do. (Obviously, that hitachi is for a neck ache)
Jan 14, 2014 JudT commented on SL Letter of the Day: Access Denied.
Hm. My thought is "is it safe for a guy to have an orgasm while locked in one of these?" It's kinda come up as an issue in a pegging scenario...
Aug 13, 2013 JudT commented on Sticking It To Putin.
Obviously, the way Russia handles gay people is reprehensible, but in the scope of what the Olympic Committee ought to do, it's irrelevant

It's irrelevant because, while gay rights are human rights, and Russia has a shitty human rights record even if we're only looking at the straight people.

Look at the way an inconvenient journalist or political opponent is treated, and the fact they're putting fucking dead people on trial. If the guy you're trying is already dead (died suspiciously suddenly while in prison, imagine that), I'm pretty sure you can guarantee the whole thing is political bullshit and not rule of law.

There are good Russian people in the world. None of them, however, are in charge over there.

Fuck Russia. It may not be Nazi Germany, but the shit they're doing now would make Stalin smile.
May 6, 2013 JudT commented on I Shouldn't Do This....
I feel that the standard response should be just to cite Johnny McGovern.

"You call me a fag, I say 'that's right, cuz I fucked your daddy.'"
Apr 29, 2013 JudT commented on Marriage Equality: How Did We Get Here?.
@12: The legal rights of marriage aren't generally in the "oh, you're married, so here are your goodies" they're generally, "oh, well, you've signed a legal contract, so your stuff is kinda your (wo)man's stuff and vice versa, and you can make some medical type decisions for each other in a crisis (etc)." It's not so much special rights for married people as married couples have a special legal relationship towards each other.