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Nov 27, 2012 finallyhappy joined My Stranger Face

Nov 27, 2012 finallyhappy commented on Savage Love.

Poly only works if both people are okay with the arrangement AND if ground rules are set AND lived by. My ex-husband is poly and I'm so not. But, when he told me if I couldn't accept it, he'd leave, I decided, for the kids to try and make it work. One of the ground rules was that our bed was our bed and his other girlfriend(s) couldn't share it; a week in, I was on the couch and she was in our bed. It ended up being the best thing for us when I realized after nearly ten years what an emotionally abusive prick he is and divorced him. Now, the kids and I are happy with my boyfriend and we hardly ever talk to or see the ex.