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May 14, 2014 Indighost commented on SL Letter of the Day: Locker Room Cock Tales.
Tooootally fake.

This exact scenario is played out again and again and again among certain fanasty game-playing communities.
May 9, 2014 Indighost commented on The Power of Prayer Sex.
Must've been awkward for the other guy.
May 1, 2014 Indighost commented on Combatting Rape on College Campuses.
@4: Assuming you're right, Who would go to a frat party and NOT expect excessive drinking and drugs and risky/violent behavior? It's the #1 thing that comes to my mind at the mention of the word.
May 1, 2014 Indighost commented on SL Letter of the Day: The Erotic Power of a Troublesome Word.
Fiction is fiction...guy should do what he wants.
Apr 30, 2014 Indighost commented on Savage Love.
Here's hoping that Dan will one day learn, as I have, that when people say "You're blaming the victim!" what they really mean is, "I'm too lazy to take responsibility to climb out of the pit of my misfortunes, please do it for me!"
Apr 24, 2014 Indighost commented on I'm Definitely in Los Angeles.
That is actually a really good business model as long as you can convincingly play the part.
Apr 18, 2014 Indighost commented on American Democracy, RIP.
It's not the death of democracy. It's just a brief flash in the pan of some people realizing that the true definitions of power lie in human nature and cannot truly be changed, only temporarily pushed away from their gravitic center.

Power clusters and centralizes over time naturally. Democracy sometimes leads to redistributions which temporarily equalize things, but unlikely to persist forever against such a deep force.
Apr 15, 2014 Indighost commented on SL Letter of the Day: Open Up.
PSA: The stranger's "edit comment" button doesn't work.

I wanted to note that my advice in my comment #14 is my own opinion but the science exists, you can see it in a survey done on OKCupid. Women on average rated 80% of men as ugly, men on average related 30% of women as ugly.
Apr 15, 2014 Indighost commented on SL Letter of the Day: Open Up.
Agreed with 1 and 2, this "vacation rerun" crap is really getting old. If Dan doesn't want to do it, don't post these reruns.

Dan also really needs to accept some proven evolutionary psychology:

Women are attracted upwards only (due to high cost of egg), Men are attracted up, down, and around (cheap and plentiful sperm.)

A man who allows a woman to stray will most likely see her drop him for an upgrade.

This is true for humans, chickens, monkeys, horses, bower birds, whales, and more.
Apr 1, 2014 Indighost commented on SL Letter of the Day: Leaving Monogamy Behind.
@27, I am referring to what @28 says about women not finding it "thrilling" anymore if the husband has permission.

I agree and I think that Dan needs to stop recommending this arrangement to hetero couples, especially where one of the pair displays any reservation. Unlike Dan's relationship, man-woman dynamics are not symmetrical and this makes for very bad news more often than not in my book. I have had multiple male friends tell me of wives who begged for O.R., then divorced soon after when they found a "better" man to "upgrade".
 

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