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Apr 4 argentinagal commented on Savage Love.

@89. Feeling a little bitter, are we? Most people don't pull that kind of thing. In the case of the girl who wrote in, she just seems to want to enjoy a relationship with an intelligent, mature man. I can relate. Many colleges only prohibit prof/student relationships if the professor is currently involved with their grades, exactly to prevent the porn-movie scenario of the dumb-but-hot student and professor.

Nov 27, 2012 argentinagal commented on Savage Love.

crap. Now I double posted.

Nov 27, 2012 argentinagal commented on Savage Love.

My partner already had a collection of toys when we got together, and I really appreciated it. I would never have known what to buy on my own, and I'm broke, so good quality gear would have been out of the question. As long as everything was kept clean and in good condition, I saw no reason to be anything but practical. For me, more personal items, like lingerie, should probably be kept for one person. Symbols of the relationship should also be kept personal.

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Nov 27, 2012 argentinagal commented on Savage Love.

My partner had a lot of gear from before we met and I was glad about it. He's a lot more experienced than I am, and I wouldn't have known what was good to get. (I'm also broke, so good quality items would have been out of the question.) Already having the equipment was really useful and practical. I would get rid of penetrative toys though, and clean anything that might have gotten fluids on it.