May 9
Robin8 commented on
Savage Love.
Getting on antidepressants did, and it helped me become functional long enough to make it through to the other side.
-------Late to the party, but if TSTQ's spouse is truly depressed (or bipolar), and TSTQ is concerned about resurrecting their sex life, she better not hope antidepressants will make it any better. SSRIs are known boner-killers.
@24: Depression manifests itself differently in men than in women. You went through it for eight months? Try sixteen YEARS. Trust me, his behavior is not atypical.
@31: No need to insult us. TSTQ's spouse could be depressed AND a deadbeat.
Overall, I'm catching a whiff of someone who simply doesn't want to be labeled a divorceé at age 24. Trust me, TSTQ, there are way worse things in life. I say GTFO and let him figure it out. (Setting up all the legal infrastructure mentioned on this board, of course, before G'ing TFO.)
Mar 27
Robin8 commented on
Savage Love.
The dick wants what it wants.
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Truer wisdom was never spoken. The guiding force behind most of history.
Mar 20
Robin8 commented on
Savage Love.
I've heard the stories for years and never realized that you were xupposed to pull off the animal's legs and jaw. How grotesque. Who wants all that blood around during any sex act?!
(BTW, I'm an acquaintance of the Gere family from childhood, and I can assure everyone that while his younger brother David is gay, Richard is not.)
Mar 7
Robin8 commented on
Savage Love.
Not all of us read the SLLOTDs. This week's column was new to me.
BTW, did anyone besides me read Dan's response in #26 with an Eric Cartman voice?
Feb 22
Robin8 commented on
Savage Love.
@162: Point taken. Some Jewish couple exchange coins rather than rings. One couple at my synagogue exchanged coins their great-grandparents had brought over on the boat with them.
Feb 22
Robin8 commented on
Savage Love.
Late to the party, but:
LW1's sister probably picked that date on purpose; and
LW2 doesn't have to have a diamond for an engagement ring. That's deBeers brainwashing. (Don't even get me started on the "two months' salary" bullshit, which I hear has inflated to three months now.)You don't even have to have a ring. I know couples who used necklaces instead of rings as the engagement jewel. As for the expensive stone, I always said I'd rather have my beloved's birthstone, whoever that may be, as the engagement jewel. Assuming he's not an April baby, how about compromising and getting a nice mid-range ring in his birthstone? (Bonus: Victorian engagement rings were often colored. Rubies and sapphires were used often. So you'd be honoring a much older tradition than Dutch enslavement of African nationals.)
Feb 19
Robin8 commented on
Charles Krafft Is a White
Nationalist Who Believes the Holocaust Is a Deliberately Exaggerated Myth.
The author forgot to mention that the journal with the scholarly-sounding title, Institute for Historical Review, is a publication devoted solely to pseudoscholarship denying the Holocaust, and frequently featuring the writings of internationally known Jew-haters like Fred Leuchter, Ernst Zundel, and David Irving:
http://archive.adl.org/learn/ext_us/hist…,
http://www.splcenter.org/get-informed/in…
David Irving, of course, is the British author who sued Deborah Lipstadt, author of
Denying the Holocaust, for libel. Because he sued in a British court of law, Lipstadt found herself in the peculiar position of having to prove she didn't libel Irving, as opposed to him having to prove he was libeled, which would be the burden of proof in a US court of law.
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Nov 13, 2012
Robin8 commented on
Savage Love.
BBB's story reminded me of one of the 8,000 or so men Shere Hite interviewed for The Hite Report on Male Sexuality. Naturally, most men said they loved fellatio, but one memorable man was quoted as saying, "I do not like people sucking on my penis. Too many other sexy places."
-------Late to the party, but if TSTQ's spouse is truly depressed (or bipolar), and TSTQ is concerned about resurrecting their sex life, she better not hope antidepressants will make it any better. SSRIs are known boner-killers.
@24: Depression manifests itself differently in men than in women. You went through it for eight months? Try sixteen YEARS. Trust me, his behavior is not atypical.
@31: No need to insult us. TSTQ's spouse could be depressed AND a deadbeat.
Overall, I'm catching a whiff of someone who simply doesn't want to be labeled a divorceé at age 24. Trust me, TSTQ, there are way worse things in life. I say GTFO and let him figure it out. (Setting up all the legal infrastructure mentioned on this board, of course, before G'ing TFO.)