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Dec 11, 2012 LilaJ joined My Stranger Face
Dec 11, 2012 LilaJ joined My Stranger Face
Dec 11, 2012 LilaJ commented on Savage Love.

I prefer monogamy, but it's possible I could be happy with polyamory too. However, there are some people who just can't be happy in a non-monogamous relationship, and there are some people who just can't be happy in a monogamous one. And many of those people are hard-wired to be the way they are.

That's not a sexual orientation, it's a relationship orientation.
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Some bisexuals don't have a strong desire to be with someone of a particular sex--they can be happy with either. But some bisexuals (I think a minority) actually do have a strong desire to be with a person of EACH gender that they are attracted to. And that's fine too!
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How do you know that someone presenting themselves as poly is not actually a cheating mono person? You say you want to talk to their other partner(s) before things go anywhere. Of course, a cheater could get people to lie for them, but this is true regardless of mono or poly.
 
 

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