Yeah, it's a copy of that.

Dec 12, 2012 dinana commented on Savage Love.
There are times when being dumped by text is preferable. If my guy gets to the point that he can't go on with me, I think an sms would be fair. I have a job that gives me months of vacation time, but my work months are intense, at least seventy plus, sometimes over a hundred hours a week.
I was in a long distance relationship that was working for me fine, because of my availability; but not working for him because of my unavailability. An SMS break up might have been disappointing, it would have given me an empty feeling. And I'd have known that I should make different plans for my next vacation.
Instead he insisted upon flying half way around the world, to see me for the "Holidays," at a time when I was so busy that it was taking weeks before I could find a moment to even return a call from my own mother. Yes, I told him it wasn't a good time for me. I told him that I'd come home late, leave early and be pretty much comatose for the few hours in between. But if he wanted to watch me sleep briefly each night, and make coffee while I was in the shower before a quick dash out the door each morning, I wasn't ready to forbid him the shallow pleasure.
Maybe he had a fantasy that under the gaze of his in person charisma, I'd go all gooey and admit that I loved him more than life, and agree to make the changes that would conform to his reasonable needs. But it didn't work that way. I was super stressed over the obligation to host him. He gave me the ultimatum at the airport when I picked him up, which I interpreted as a break up, because I don't take lovingly to manipulation no matter how hot, gorgeous, smart, funny; and worth travelling around the world for, a guy might have been. So we broke up on the spot. He tried to engage in drama, but I had no energy for it. The whole ordeal gave him a herpes outbreak, so we couldn't even have morose break up sex, while he slept in my bed for the next two weeks because he couldn't change his (Christmas) flight ticket or afford to stay in a decent hotel, and I didn't have the heart to send him from my tiny studio, to a flea bag hostel.
BTW I'm in yet another long distance relationship, going on 3 years. I've told my current bf this story. There have been no ultimatums and he hasn't tried to visit me when I'm working. But he does text several times a day. Why any normal person would put up with this? Thank goodness for sms.
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Dec 12, 2012 dinana commented on Savage Love.
Don't know if it's the same for What's So Funny's wife, but I find it way easier to let go, and receive the pleasures of the tongue, when there's an urgent warm cock in my mouth at the same time.
Dec 12, 2012 dinana commented on Savage Love.
To be successfully poly is more than an identity, it's an achievement... as is being successfully monogamous. It's a hell of a lot easier to be out as monogamous. It's even easier to be a self loathing, liar, than to be out, under most circumstances as poly; I'd fear of loosing my un-tenured position, if I brought two significants to the next faculty Christmas Party.
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Dec 12, 2012 dinana commented on Savage Love Episode 320.
So sex around trees in December is sacrilege but sex around trees in April is sacred? And here I thought sex was intuitive.
 
 

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