Mar 15 Rob L commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Off the Couch, Onto the Sheets.
Us "senior citizen" readers love "the short amount of time you have left on the planet". I figure that must give me permission to do pretty much whatever I want.
Nov 5, 2015 Rob L commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: The Invisible Man.
Learn that looks don't mean a thing and you are on your way to a happy relationship/marriage.
Feb 11, 2015 Rob L commented on SL Letter of the Day: Be PrEPared.
Thanks Dan, I lived through the epidemic and I have never understood the AIDS activists who oppose the use of PrEP. If we have another arrow in our quiver, we should use it. No one every thought that condoms were perfect. PrEP is wonderful for people in serodiscordant relationships as well as people who are just not going to use condoms for whatever reason.
Feb 3, 2015 Rob L commented on SL Letter of the Day: As One Is Wont to Do.
Either option sounds like a lot of fun!
Jan 13, 2015 Rob L commented on SL Letter of the Day: A Short Selection of Today's DTMFAs.
Anal bleaching could be the cause of a pink asshole. While I don't have statistics, it is probably that gay bottoms do this more often than straight guys. (Otherwise pink buttholes seem to be the birthright of blondes and redheads.
May 21, 2014 Rob L commented on Savage Love.
As the former partner of a diaper fetishist I think you should take bad Dan's advice and if (when) you find out that diapers are so exciting that they are going to be a MAJOR part of your sex life, then you have to tell your partner that the MUST be a major part of your sex life, or you should remain friends but part as sex partners. This may seem harsh, but it will be much better for both of you.
Nov 30, 2013 Rob L commented on Savage Love.
I was GGG to an adult baby for years. It worked well. It only fell apart when he was so consumed with diapers that he would no longer meet my vanilla needs. There are guys out there who are going to be fine with it if you can be fine with their needs. But, Dan is right, you will probably be much happier with someone who shares your kink.
Jul 21, 2013 Rob L commented on I Am a Terrible Person.
I don't think it's fake, I did much the same, not in college, but for years afterwards. Then it loses its luster. The people you hurt don't seem worse for wear and it makes a nice memory all round.
Jun 6, 2013 Rob L commented on Savage Love.
Thanks for clarifying the lines between GGG and allowing one partner to take over the sex life of a couple. I, like EFFED tried to be GGG about my partner's fetish for years. But, soon enough, his fetish was all we were having for sex, and he felt it was unfair if I asked for a few vanilla encounters.

Everyone should be GGG, but if only one side is, then DMFA.
Jan 4, 2012 Rob L commented on Savage Love.
Any such lawsuit would be quickly thrown out on First Amendment grounds. Besides, American courts don't award apologies.