commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Stressed Out
A certified physio therapist can work on her pelvic floor muscles. I'm surprised Dan didn't look into this further. We'd suggest physio for any muscle injury, why not pelvic floor muscles?
Unfortunately in my experience, physicians aren't going to recommend seeing a physio therapist.
I happened to get lucky. I went in to a physio therapist for a broken tail bone, and part of that therapy was rehabilitation of my pelvic floor muscles. Prior to that, my pain during sex especially at climax wasn't taken all that seriously by my physician (also gyno)
Dec 22, 2015
commented on SL Letter of the Day: High Hopes
Can a weight difference pose a challenge? I hadn't noticed.
Since when did slender = fit
Non slender women are perfectly capable of being both physically fit, and excellent lovers despite outweighing their male partners.
There is nothing wrong with having a preference, but there I something wrong with the way the LW chose to announce his preference. He's defensive about it.
Resentful of the BBWs? Why can those fatties get attraction and appreciation when his short miserableself can't.
He sounds like a twat.
Aug 5, 2015
commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Gone Camping
There is an air of superiority and a smugness to Dompse that I am really not digging. Her tone is condescending, her attitude toward the couple, specifically the "less enlightened" female counterpart is abhorrent, and this entire saga leaves me feeling absolutely gross about the prospects of monogamish relationships.
@213, while Dompse feels the LWs letter only covers 5-10% of the events, the incidient was clearly the most important of the events that happened at the LW burn experience. That is where a huge part of this disconnect lies, Dompse doesn't view this as a big deal because to her it was only 5-10% of the experience. Dompse in her enlightend wisdom is failing to emphasize with the LW and recognize that this was far larger than 5-10% of the weekend to the LW.
It was a betrayal of the LW & DansFans ground rules. The LW felt betrayed and left out and that cannot be glossed over.
Dec 19, 2012
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Dec 19, 2012
commented on Savage Love
I also suffered horrendous abuse as a child. At 17 I could have easily written that letter. I wouldn't have been able to speak the words, but I could have certainly written them. Without a doubt.
Chances are NOPE took their time writing that. Read and re read it to ensure they were sending Dan the very best letter they could have on the subject. I highly doubt it was a letter hastily tapped out in a few.minutes. Given the test they have in Dan, the internal struggle they are experiencing, I have a hard time believing that they didn't write the letter with all of theit intellectual prowess they could muster.
If it were me and I were writing at seventeen, I would have made dang sure I came across as mature, articulate, and concise.
Unlike this post im tapping out on my cell phone.