commented on Savage Love Episode 328
Lol I couldn't agree more with #16! I couldn't think of a more mortifying moment for your 12-13 year old kid to have with his mom-trapped in a car no less. People don't need masturbation lessons. Ridiculous.
commented on Savage Love Episode 322
I agree 100% with #31's comments on spreadsheet-guy.
I thought it was deeply telling that he keeps repeating how he's ALWAYS in control of doing the dumping and has never been the 'dumpee'. I think this individual is simply scared of rejection himself and so he seeks out women who he feels superior to that can criticize and LITERALLY degrade in his geeky little graphs.
You should intuitively know what you like and don't like about a person, and choose to continue dating them if you're interested. If not, let them go. Ask yourself if the tables were turned, how would you feel if your date tracked your worth in a spreadsheet.
I suspect you must be used to online dating - which I have tried and seems to foster this kind of 'checklist' mentality to cope with sifting through hundreds of potential mates. Try to keep a little perspective!