commented on SL Letter of the Day: A Married Bi Man Makes His Move
I try to remember that I am reading one person's view. I recall that my ex-wife's sex drive went down about the same time I started fantasizing about others and thinking about others while looking at porn and masturbating. Coincidence? I doubt it. I have learned that women are turned on by being wanted and when they are desired their sex drive goes up. Not magic. But sometime you loose desire for someone so work on it or move on.