commented on SL Letter of the Day: Red Flagging
I think the LW is a guy. I don't believe we've got the whole story. I think he was acting like a condescending dick. "Rein in your boyfriend"? Change that to "Yo dude control your bitch.", same attitude. I'll bet the LW wants to fuck the friend. I'll bet the new BF isn't comfortable talking about sex with strangers and was quasi-incredulous as that conversation went down. It's o.k. to not want to discuss sex with people you're not having it with. Some of my best lovers would never have dreamed of having public discussions about sex with me and other people. Just not part of their acceptable cultural landscape. Less chitchat, more fucking.