Jul 15 sasha commented on Savage Love.
@NCA, Sometimes there is bit of an adrenaline rush from a relationship that doesn't quite work: Maybe a thrill of the chase, a going out on a limb and doing something new to "try and make it work." it can be both intoxicating and devastating. Sometimes in the rush we forget to do what inspires ourselves and go mad. Whatever it is, the biggest danger of this "incompatibility rush" is that it makes a perfectly happy functioning relationship seem boring by comparison. Try things YOU have always wanted to try with your current lover. Do good things for yourself with yourself with which your lover can be a part or not (a good relationship has alone time for both). It's subtle maybe "boring" but it can lead to something more satisfying in the long term.
Jun 9 sasha commented on Seattle Police Drop Plans for Crime "Forecasting".
Looks like someone payed attention to the pre-cogs' Minority Report
May 31 sasha commented on This Election Cycle, the Libertarian Party is on the Cutting Edge of Bonkers.
Hey at least someone around here supports open government.
May 10 sasha commented on Um, Budweiser Is Changing Its Name to "America" This Summer.
Isn't the parent company that owns Anheuser Busch owned by a Belgian / Brazilian consortium ?
May 2 sasha commented on Twenty-Three People Shot by American Toddlers So Far This Year.
The crippling pain of being born to parents too stupid to safeguard their guns has become unbearable
Apr 25 sasha commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Boyfriend Slow-Walking His Divorce.
So I might also suggest that in some cases it's easier to disentangle complex things slowly. I've had lovers pressure me to cut off ex's so quickly that there ended up being a lot more confusion in the end for everyone.
Apr 11 sasha commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Meat the Wife.
DTFMA Divorce the Fucking Mother Already.
Mar 11 sasha commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: My Coworker Is Vetting Sugar Daddies!.
with the information given, The letter writer should not make efforts to hasten their colleagues departure, but neither should she feel bad when the inevitable happens
Feb 22 sasha commented on Hillary Clinton Used to Be Terrible On Marriage Equality.
So just a thought. It's a heck of a lot easier to openly support certain progressive ideals openly and consistently if you're only representing Vermont than if you're in Hilary's shoes.
Feb 12 sasha commented on Returning Column!.
What about Netflix and Chill?