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Jun 21, 2015 textthatappearsbelow commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Ex Texting and Cord Cutting.
oh, it's much simpler than all this: no one wants to acknowledge that "happiness" is not possible by cultivating, breaking, hanging onto or cutting cords of relationships. It just doesn't live there. It lives in one's relationship to one's self. Period. Everything else is an expression of codependence.
Jan 16, 2013 textthatappearsbelow commented on Savage Love.
boringest column. about product. ugh. anyone here actually care about nancy! and carl? column space for a lovecast ad = boring.

long time fan.
Dec 27, 2012 textthatappearsbelow commented on Savage Love.
@43 wins the internet.
Nov 6, 2012 textthatappearsbelow commented on Savage Love.
8, The evidence for reincarnation is actually very good. look up Dr. Ian Stevenson. On the subject of religion, what matters is how it holds its beliefs. There are esoteric (good) and exoteric(bad) sides to Buddhism, Christianity, etc. The problem is not which religion you go to, it's its relationship to truth.
Oct 31, 2012 textthatappearsbelow commented on A Fusion Supreme.
I'm going to have to revisit this. When I got it in the mid 70's I listened to it many times, but eventually decided that is simply was not as interesting as his other releases of the period. Strip off all the fascination with its "uniqueness" and tone down the exlamations of it's "importance" and you have somewhat interesting but overlong tracks. I would recommend Bitches Brew and Live/Evil ahead of On The Corner.
Sep 7, 2012 textthatappearsbelow commented on Savage Love.
HBM's situation: relationship has gone way off course, but neither of them are monsters and they could turn things around or at least improve the level of truth and attention for each other. There could be some sex/love addiction going on with her. Perhaps they can't stay together, but they are way far from knowing that. Truth has to be aired. Otherwise, what's a marriage?
Aug 9, 2012 textthatappearsbelow commented on Savage Love.
@45 Dan has been known to read the reader's comments. He may be commenting under a pseudonym. He may be you.
Mar 20, 2012 textthatappearsbelow commented on Savage Love.
i totally missed this columnlast week. OK, MUSIC INCOMPATIBILITY: I don't recommend it. I have had MI partners and not MI partners and the latter is so rich, so deep, so great for sharing, so special, so amazingly good that if you are faced with MI, think real fucking hard about what you are getting into. NOW,FOR YOUR INFORMATION,I married a mutherfucker with MI. Yes, I love Thelonius Monk and she loves Phantom of the Fuckin Opera. I love Stravinski, and she loves American Fucking Idol. Ok, so I know what the fuck I'm talking about. YOU CAN SURVIVE MI MARRIAGE, but i recommend that you get your share of the opposite at least once before you die so you are not bereft of the experience for your entire life.
Dec 28, 2011 textthatappearsbelow commented on Savage Love.
love is messy, isn't it? Bombast's wife is human and their relationship is real. Bombast, do not kick her to the curb without exercising all the compassion you have. Give it the effort that love demands. I find this blood-thirsty condemnation by haters to be myopic. Who here isn't in some way neurotic or otherwise incapable of loving their s.o. perfectly?
Dec 21, 2011 textthatappearsbelow commented on Savage Love.
The kid not being the husband's is a huge fucking deal that he will not "get over" like not getting the car color he wanted. The anxiety is justified.