commented on SL Letter of the Day: All the Red Flags
He's told me that by threatening to leave him, I'm manipulating him, and that I have no regard for his needs.
Why does he *need* to rape her? Knowing her history. Why does he need to have her relive the most terrifying moments of her life? Without a safe word to fall back on? To top it off he wants her permission...so it legally would not be rape.
Talk about manipulative.