commented on Straight Guys More Depressed and Stressed Than Out Gay and Bi Guys
#126 and #129: Stating that you have an issue in your life doesn't mean you need to have the solution. Anyway, the question was what causes depression and stress to some men - seems like its worth it to listen to the answers.
#125 makes a good point. It seems that that male sexuality is both pathologized and pandered to by the media. Although you could say the same about women's, but in a different way.
commented on SL Letter of the Day: Pop a Cap
Speaking as a woman: Its not the looking per se, its that its constant, unending, and always about the same thing, over and over. It raises a rebellious streak in me...why do you get to set my agenda every minute of the day? From the male side (I imagine), its not easy because men are genetically programmed to have self confidence, overcome objections and frankly be clueless a lot of the time...it a successful strategy. Moreover, most people aren't thinking of themselves as a "creeps" for doing what comes naturally.
There is still work to be done to reach some kind of happy medium. The Creator sure played a dirty trick on us.