commented on Savage Love
Am I the only straight guy who gets no particular thrill at all from watching women have sex? I find it downright boring, while seeing a woman hungry for cock makes me hot since that is the equipment I have.
I've been married to a bi-woman for years, and have shared many fun times adding other women to the mix. All my thrill is from seeing my woman soooo happy getting something I can't give, and of course the fun of having two women to play with...
And lastly, when I was much younger, I mouth kissed my beautiful, hot male friend - an experience that immediately and powerfully revealed that I am straight. No amount of liquor would change that - aren't DSG's simply straight identified, slightly bi women who are only a little bit female oriented since its all a spectrum? My wife is super straight identified and none would know otherwise.
commented on Meet the Gun Show Loophole!
lol, yeah your firearms will protect you from a drone strike. and your shooting club gives you the skills to defend yourself against active duty military and police. stopping tyrany? history has shown that organized people acting togther don't need weapons to stop tyranny - facebook is much more of a threat to tyrants than your little pea shooter. at least admit what this is about - guns are fun and make you feel powerful, even when you are not.
commented on SL Letter of the Day: Be a Little Selfish
my mom, my best friend, my second serious girlfriend were all victims of rape, and my wife was molested by her brother. As you can imagine, this made me a bit overly protective of women, and very uncomfortable dominating my wife or partners, always afraid I was being the actual bad guy. As much as my wife encouraged me, I couldn't get into the head space to do it, until another partner was super explicit and explained that me being dominant was not about ME but about HER, and was really just a different way of pleasuring her, and that is was a way of giving, evem if it felt like taking. We also played with another couple where the husband dominated his wife, and was able to see, first hand, how it worked in the context of a loving relationship. since then, I, many of my lovers, and especially my wife, have been very grateful and happy that i figured it out, so there is hope. But unless this guy has a cuck fetish, the threesome seems like a bad idea, as the 'crazy' ex may know how to dominate her, i doubt the dynamic between them (which is not healthy enough to keep the relationship going) is going to teach the new boyfriend how to make it work for HIM. lastly, in the boyfriends shoes I would hate this on two levels: one, this guy is an ex, so there is an emotional minefield, and it not fair - they have practiced this dynamic and made it work for them, while he is figuring it out, and at a total disadvantage. if he is in love with the letter writer, this seems like a formula for learning the wrong lessons about dom/sub and his girlfriend, as hot as you spectators might think the scene is.