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10:33 PM yesterday tito commented on I, Anonymous.

@ramrod and Arthur: and not saying she's not a "furious bitch to endure" she very well could be, but then why's he going back? He apparently has a gf to live with. And also, women blame men for their cheating, but I know you both realize "she imprisoned him" as an excuse is fucking ridiculous.
People blame the person they cheated on for cheating. Gender has nothing to do with it.

9:47 PM yesterday tito commented on Savage Love.

@Eirene(229)If that was your point then say that because THAT answered my question. I wasn't looking for validation just clarification. And your attitude proves how non-inclusive you are as a human being so you aren't doing much for your cause anyway.

@Vennominon: Thank you for your polite response.

9:06 PM yesterday tito commented on I, Anonymous.

@Arthur I didn't say always. I don't think that at all. And I think sex positive therapists are in fact a fine thing especially if they are finding a way for couples to have more sex. With each other. I was being snarky because this therapist sounds like a douche. 45 minutes? And sis looks out for sis because they are sisters and obviously husband isn't looking out for sis. The implication she doesn't deserve someone on her side even her own sister regardless of whatever she might have done wrong is fucking lame. And I agree they are probably working it out their own way, and totally don't think she's perfectly innocent either. But none of that makes me think the therapist isn't a fucking douche. And I don't think all men are entitled. I know enough people to know entitlement is not gender specific. I just think this guy is entitled. But you seem very biased yourself so what I say probably isn't going to matter anyways.

May 19 tito commented on Savage Love.

@Eirene:that's not my idea of feminism. MY idea of feminism is what I said in first part of that sentence. That I live in full equal partnership with my husband. The part you quoted is what makes me less feminist. I'm just pointing out I don't know the rules anymore.

May 19 tito commented on Savage Love.

@mydriasis:thank you for explaining. 210 seems to outline your point. And especially thank you for 218. I have always had trouble with definitions of feminism in terms of how it applies to my own life. I guess by the dictionary term I fit. I exist in a very equal relationship with a man. We both work we both cook and clean and take care of our son. But because I am married to a man and am a mom I also fall out of the feminist definition in that I have "chosen" a path traditional women have chosen. And I put that in quotes because while I did chose to have a child I in no more chose the path of marriage and monogamy as it chose me. We found each other and this is what we both want together. Feminism as a word and concept thought up by women in the 60s that ONLY included those it saw fit to include needs to be updated. If it has been, and I have been too busy working and raising my son and giving my husband blowjobs to notice, you will have to let me know.

May 19 tito commented on Savage Love.

@tachycardia I'm with everything you said in 191 word for word. Until the P has gone in the V I have not had sex.

May 19 tito commented on Savage Love.

@mydriasis. I was not talking about a world without blowjobs either. Maybe I sounded sarcastic in my response which was directed at Hunter saying he thought a life of only PiV seemed small and drab. At first I wanted to disagree if only to defend those of us who air on the vanilla side. But as I wrote I realized our vanilla-ness does not limit us to PiV. While we both are not into anal, blowjobs are a huge part my husband's and my sex life. I guess I was really just agreeing with Hunter in an unclear way the irony behind how boring a guy's whole life could be without blow jobs. Small and drab without, fun with. Simple fix.

May 18 tito commented on Savage Love.

@188faithhandler:thanks. That's the kind of helpful info normal people need to hear. Open, honest, not too creepy. I think I will try to remember this and HOPEFULLY, BBTB will see what you posted. Of all the comments and also Dan's advice(I assume he was joking) yours was the ONLY one directly applicable to this women's situation. So thanks again.

@Hunter78(193) I feel there is a part of me that needs to defend the successful vanilla sexual relationship but even as I do I realize that as vanilla as my husband and I are we are still not limited to PiV. He would be very bored without blow jobs. His life WOULD be so small and drab without oral sex. Easy fix I say. Y'all are easy to please.

May 18 tito commented on I, Anonymous.

This must be the therapist Dan Savage thinks people should see. Is this what's called "sex positive" therapy? As in "I'm positive I'm an entitled male and will have sex with whoever I want."

May 15 tito commented on Savage Love.

I think maybe Dan edits to encourage discussion between us commenters. Everything left out of DSG's letter was brought up by us(well, you guys) and my guess is that was the point. Also he may have wanted to make a point out if the fact that her problem isn't really one. And her original letter made her sound much less lame so no fun for commenters there. Dan's just giving us what we want.