commented on SL Letter of the Day: Barely Legal
@39, "Anecdotally, when people comment in SLlotd about relationships with an older lover that they feel fine about looking back, they usually note that from here they do see the older person as kinda scuzzy and wonder what they were thinking."
Anecdotes don't prove your point.
commented on The Madam Who Turned to Stone
Yay! I love stories like this and am reminded of good times in Seattle in the early 90s. The old curmudgeonly harridan and a troll living under the Aurora bridge--and the gorgeousness of the land and sea--make Seattle one of the best places I've ever been. And despite my name, I'm totally serious.
commented on SL Letter of the Day: Dark Secrets
@13, you have your head up your ass. As a woman I can say you don't know what turns "women" on. You can only speak to what turns you on, so don't speak for the rest of us. Some of us like being dominated in bed while passionately dislike being stalked, threatened, and/or raped.
Also, newsflash, a lot of abused women DON'T know what to do about their situations, they feel trapped, and find themselves in a vicious cycle of wanting to tell people their situation and feeling like they are "blowing it out of proportion" or some variant of self-shaming and self-devaluation.
So fuck you.
commented on I, Anonymous
@20 meb...you are my hero. I couldn't have said it better myself.
As for those of you getting your panties in a bunch about whether or not the LW should just get over him/herself, thanks for the laffs! What's described her is definitely nauseating behavior, and thankfully I,A is a forum to vent about the assholes one encounters in daily life.