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Nov 3, 2016 No Excuses commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Husband-To-Be's Porn Use Causes Ex-Christian Bride To Despair.
@4, If everyone you've ever had sex with is a hopeless disappointment then you're probably doing the right thing not engaging in it. But I implore you to consider what factors about yourself lead you to subconsciously self select for bad lays every single time.
Oct 19, 2016 No Excuses commented on I Spent 45 Minutes Listening to Shingy and Now I'm Even More Afraid of the Future.
Why i wont ever go to these. He is Trump levels of uncredible
Oct 11, 2016 No Excuses commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Stop Humping The Bed.
@12, obviously not. But quite a few escort. It's another way to earn money doing what they do. I'm surprised you never thought of it.
Oct 11, 2016 No Excuses commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Stop Humping The Bed.
@6, you'd be wrong. The price is the negotiating point, not the people involved.
Oct 4, 2016 No Excuses commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: A Counterpoint to Last Week's Tweet Storm of Advice for Straight Men.
And thats not to say Ive never been hurt and never hurt anyone else, even my wife when we first started dating and i wanted to feel like a baller juggling two women at a time, but I was young and immature. I guess I grew out of the need to validate my attractiveness and assauge my insecurities after that fiasco and getting the forgivness for my immaturity from her was a step towards shedding some of it.

I know this is probably off the mark but if someone has a lot of trouble dating its probably the someone in question thats the problem, not the world at large. But I take individual accountability to be very important

Oct 4, 2016 No Excuses commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: A Counterpoint to Last Week's Tweet Storm of Advice for Straight Men.
@19 To an extent yes, life is just one big game with several layers. But I wouldn't even know how to define 'winning' at life that factors in the personal things each individual cares about and looks for in life. To me, being happily married to a really cool person who aligns on so many personal levels is 'winning'. There are so many things I find weird about what people prioritize in relationships that the only thought I can muster is "Maybe I'm easily satisfied and hate working hard for something that should come naturally". Perhaps its a young person thing where many define themselves by the social situation around them, I don't know.

But to me, concepts like 'dating up' warrant the question of "who the fuck are you trying to impress with your relationship". Is this really what dating and relationships are about? Maybe I'm so far removed that I forget exactly how I felt but I had a few really rewarding relationships when I was younger that people dogged on me for because the girl wasn't attractive in many ways to the people I was friends or living with. But they were fun and I was attracted to the person. They turned my crank and I'm better for meeting and dating them.

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Oct 4, 2016 No Excuses commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: A Counterpoint to Last Week's Tweet Storm of Advice for Straight Men.
The more I read things like this, the more I think "Man, it's nice to be me".

All these hapless people trying to win a meta game while life passes them by.
Sep 30, 2016 No Excuses commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: A Tweet Storm of Excellent Advice.
@39

There's a world of difference between living your life for other people and changing behavior that makes you more magnanimous and social. Too often young people think their personalities, tastes and preferences are set in immutable stone. Well, if its beneficial behavior that yields happiness, sure dont change. but thats not who is writing in.
Sep 29, 2016 No Excuses commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: A Tweet Storm of Excellent Advice.
Im a nerd who obsesses over nerdy tactical strategy games. Rarely had a problem because a hobby doesn't define me. I contain multitudes. And I before I met my wife, I was attracted to women who shared common nerdy interests cause relationships are bout doing things together, sharing experiences together, laughing at the same dumb stuff together, together together together.

@20 Most people don't have a good compass about works for them in relationships until they get crapped on. Some people take a few goes around the track before they find it, sometimes they never leave the track and are in an emotional death race. It's not a gender thing, it's a human thing. I've witnessed a lot of my guy friends do stupid things and put up with stupid shit cause A. they didn't know there would be more relationships later and B. they had no frame of reference on how to have a meaningful and positive romantic relationship because they were 18

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Sep 21, 2016 No Excuses commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Another Jealous Boyfriend.
@3
Given what is commonly known about the internet and sex, the right question is "What don't people masturbate to?"