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Dec 23, 2014 Okaybear commented on SL Letters of the Day: Suggested Language.
I disagree with you on letter #1, Dan. It's not such an inconvenience to have to abstain from sleeping in the same bed with your boyfriend for a few nights. Deal with it. No coffee? Boo-hoo, go to a drive-thru and get a cup o'joe on your own time. I don't personally believe that caffeine or premarital sex are no-nos, but if my mother were hosting me, and kind enough to invite my significant other, I'd have enough respect to abide by her rules.

But whatever. It's ultimately up to the letter writer if she wants to stomp her feet and whine about getting her own way, or if she'd rather not visit.
Apr 29, 2013 Okaybear commented on Contraceptives Are the Root of All Evil Dandelions.
"Sexual Chaos" is the name of my new designer scent. Dibs.
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Mar 22, 2013 Okaybear commented on SL Letter of the Day: Help Kate Bornstein Beat Cancer.
Kate's "My Gender Workbook" was the first book I read after leaving a psych ward after a period of severe, life-threatening depression. While the book didn't directly address my issues, it was so full of fun, compassion, and mind-blowing genderqueer ideas, that I found it to be a very healing read. I later got to meet her and have her sign that book (and 'Gender Outlaw'), and I found her to be just as warm and genuine in person as she is in her writing.

Of course I'll donate...headed there right now.