CallezCal
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Jan 23, 2015 CallezCal commented on SL Letter of the Day: Cheater and Cheated.
I don't think this is an opportunity for an open relationship. I'd be willing to bet that he's not at all into giving his wife the freedom that he takes for himself.
Jan 23, 2015 CallezCal commented on SL Letter of the Day: Cheater and Cheated.
don't take him back. it will not get better with him. once you figure out how to make a life without him you will be much happier. it will be difficult to get there, but once you do, it will be better.
Jan 14, 2015 CallezCal commented on SL Letter of the Day: New Dad's Urge Surge.
Great advice, Dan. Way to call him out on his lack of responsibility taking.
Nov 17, 2014 CallezCal commented on SL Letter of the Day: Ex-Primary Screwing Up Next Primary.
Well done. My favorite response in awhile.
Nov 4, 2014 CallezCal commented on SL Letter of the Day: A Butt Plug Blooms in Pennsylvania, Readers Respond to Jonathan, Jonathan Responds to Readers.
"But as far as my son, he would know exactly what is appropriate and acceptable, and what is not. But I can assure you, this has probably never crossed his mind. Really. We've raised our kids in an honorable, orderly way, with appropriate and sensible freedoms, and they have responded well."

He will live to regret these words. You never know what someone else is thinking not even (especially?) your own kid.
Jun 26, 2014 CallezCal commented on Christian Radio "Personality" Arrested.
I was reading this thinking, "yes, yes, yes, this is almost the same as youth pastor watch, typical savage blog" until the last sentence. Arrrrg.
Dec 31, 2013 CallezCal commented on Billionaires Are Full of Contradictions.
don't go away. i need you.
Dec 11, 2013 CallezCal commented on Savage Love.
@ 47. The manipulator is the asshole, not the male. In both of your scenarios the male is the manipulator.

I'm going to go out on a limb and guess that you are an argumentative misogynist, who is good at distorting language and creating false analogies.

@25. Very astute. Yours is the best comment on here, so far.
Dec 11, 2013 CallezCal commented on Savage Love.
@ 18, sorry Eva. Discrimination is discrimination. If we had waited to solve the racism problem before we tackled the homophobia problem where would we be now?
Nov 6, 2013 CallezCal commented on Savage Love.
Childless, I sort of want to echo what Dan says. Adventure doesn't have to end. Parenthood itself is an awesome adventure and I look forward to all the things that I get to show, teach, and do with my son. My wife and I are having better sex than ever. The thing about kids, though, is that you never know what's going to happen. At nearly a year and a half my son was diagnosed with a very rare disorder that has led to twice weekly therapies as well as the need for tons of medical supplies. Needless to say we can't have as many adventures as we would without this disorder. Still, we get to have tons of fun together.