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Jun 23, 2012 adarascarlet commented on Savage Love.
Dan, are you not aware that there are other options besides texting and meeting face to face? Talking on the phone, for one. I think in this case, a well thought out breakup over the phone would have been just fine, but not over text. Even IM is a step above texting, because it goes almost as fast as having a normal conversation. In some ways it can even be better - You both get to think about what you say before you say it, and you can't interrupt. But text, TEXT? No, that is so lame. On a side note, it is also scummy (IMHO) to send a text message detailing what you want to do to a person. I can't even take it seriously. The only thing worse would be twitter with its 140 characters. "Baby I'ma take ur cloz off an lik ur nips..."

All of it is tacky, from breaking up to sexting.
Jan 26, 2012 adarascarlet commented on Savage Love.
Newt is already condoning woman-on-food sex. I mean, look at the man. He's a biscuit.
May 30, 2011 adarascarlet commented on Savage Love.
I hate to tell you this, Dan, but if the WTC towers and Building 7 really collapsed due to fire alone, the laws of physics were broken. Do I want to believe this? No. But I have to believe it, because scientific evidence doesn't lie. If you had done any research before making your claim, you would realize that there is physical evidence for controlled demolition and none for natural collapse.
Mar 2, 2011 adarascarlet commented on Savage Love.
If MSRB wants to meet someone in the Pacific Northwest, she'll pretty much have to do it online. That's the only way they communicate. (Ex-Seattlite here)
Feb 7, 2011 adarascarlet commented on Savage Love.
I'd pick scabs off of a guy's head. Why not? I have some pretty rare kinks myself.
Dec 1, 2010 adarascarlet commented on Savage Love.
Nearly every relationship I've been in has started from my asking the guy out. I would honestly rather be pursued, but sometimes that's not how it works out. Some guys are just shy, and that means if you want them you have to go get them. My boyfriend right now for example.. love him to pieces, but I never would have met him if I hadn't made the first move. "He's Just Not That Into You" was a shallow and stupid book. I'm sure all the guys out there who are afraid to talk to women did not appreciate a book telling women not to talk to them.
Aug 7, 2009 adarascarlet commented on Savage Love.
I once recycled an ex who had had a testicle removed since we were together. I was curious and intrigued to see how different it would look, and lo and behold I could barely tell. The only downside I could see was that he was less likely to be able to get a girl pregnant with half the sperm, so had we gotten back together seriously that could have become an issue, but that's a straight problem. I can't imagine a gay man being bothered by it. Everyone's their own worst critic.
Jul 23, 2009 adarascarlet commented on Savage Love.
I'm surprised to see so many people here saying that larger men are usually not as good in bed. I've never noticed any such pattern. The only thing I've noticed is that men who have been around the block tend to be selfish in bed, while inexperienced men are open-minded, trainable and kinky. Penis size has never been a factor in this.

As for #7's comment, give me a break. Of course a man who is 6'8" is more likely to have a big dick than a guy who's 5'2". Sometimes really short guys look bigger than they are because they have an average sized dick and it's disproportionate to their small frame, and I know there are exceptions to every rule, but generally body parts are proportionate with height. (I have no idea why boobs are so unpredictable) In my experience taller USUALLY equals bigger. Just like there are tall men with small hands or short torsos, and short men with long legs, there are going to be tall men with small dicks and vice versa, but this is the exception, not the rule.
Jul 8, 2009 adarascarlet commented on Savage Love.
The amount of paranoia in the comments is really bothersome. We have become a generation of cowards where parents won't even let their children walk to school anymore, and every potentially good situation is ruined with skepticism and fear. Every time ASG leaves the house she could get mugged or hit by a bus, and any blind date or even not-blind date could lead to trouble. Hell, sometimes even people who have been married for decades go berzerk and decide to kill each other. This is the only life we have (sorry Christians) so why not live it? If ASG does not take this trip she'll regret it. Maybe French Cutie's friends are saying the same things about her. "She must be a psycho or a cow sending you fake pics or else she'd find herself an American boy." The situation seems painfully simple to me: Two people met online and they like each other. Who is to say either one of them can't get laid? There is a world of difference between "correspondence" and "committed relationship." She could have typed her email while resting her laptop on Peace's glorious ass for all we know.

ASG, go go go!
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Jul 8, 2009 adarascarlet commented on Savage Love.
The amount of paranoia in the comments is really bothersome. We have become a generation of cowards where parents won't even let their children walk to school anymore, and every potentially good situation is ruined with skepticism and fear. Every time ASG leaves the house she could get mugged or hit by a bus, and any blind date or even not-blind date could lead to trouble. Hell, sometimes even people who have been married for decades go berzerk and decide to kill each other. This is the only life we have (sorry Christians) so why not live it? If ASG does not take this trip she'll regret it. Maybe French Cutie's friends are saying the same things about her. "She must be a psycho or a cow sending you fake pics or else she'd find herself and American boy." The situation seems painfully simple to me: Two people met online and they like each other. Who is to say either one of them can't get laid? There is a world of difference between "correspondence" and "committed relationship." She could have typed her email while resting her laptop on Peace's glorious ass for all we know.

ASG, go go go!
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