Nov 19
Aussie Steve commented on
All The Best Men Are Taken.
@21, I'd always ascribed that phenomenon to another explanation. When you're in a relationship, you're more likely to be fulfilled, positive, happy and confident. You don't come across so much as needy or desperate. Also, when you hang out with people of whatever gender you're into, a lot of the potential tension that might have been there otherwise is gone, and so the intercourse is so much more relaxed and natural. Relaxed and natural = attractive.
Nov 19
Aussie Steve commented on
SL Letter of the Day: My Dick Is Bent.
@1, thanks JunieGirl. For a straight (sexuality-wise, not necessarily dick-wise) dude, I found your first post really illuminating, especially the bit about lots of guys having insecurities. I've always assumed that pretty much every other guy in the world thought they were a porn star (aside from the odd cliche comparing himself to porn [or cucumbers!] and thinking his dick is too small) - maybe it's just the way straight guys often talk around each other. It's (in equal measure) both reassuring and sad to learn that dick insecurities are so common.
Nov 18
Aussie Steve commented on
Gay Priests Are Like People!.
The conflation of homosexuality with pedophilia is the single most vile and pernicious piece of slander that anti-gay bigots level against gays. It's the thing that is most likely to send me into a crucible hot rage.